Help, being drawn towards trans....

I've found that my desire for trans porn is part of my addiction. As I'm finding freedom, my desire has lessened.

There is a difference between what we genuinely like and what we are attracted to for the novelty or because of acclimitisation to other things.

 

have you ever *talked* with a trans women(I assume you like trans women,as trans men also seem to exist)?
if you do, youll be dissapointed...and thus cured! they are just people ,with their serious problems yes(disphoria of gender),but theyre not magical fantasy-enablers or anime characters.
I DONT advice doing this,but when I used a dating app to carry out my trans fetish, I realized they are just any other type of dating,with all the frustrations,annoyance and broken expectations it implies.
in the end,i decided it was BS and havent had the fetish strike back.

 

Most probably your transh fetish is a result of escalation into trans porn.
Same thing happened to me. First I thought that I was "hidden" gay. But I realized thanks to Nofap that it was result of "baiting" from online video thumbnail algorithms, shown beside the stuff I usually watched.

After a couple of years of sobriety my lust and attraction for transgenders is totally gone.


good luck, man.

 

Well there is naturally lots of humiliation and "roughness" in this kind of porn. Many people escalate to this kind of rough porn. Also many trans women look very feminine too, so don't beat yourself up too much.

 

It is definately escalation, don't worry about gender stuff. I have been dealing with this myself for 2 years and after alot of research I feel much more confident that it is 100% escalation for me (and seems like 95% of most straight males watching it). But the only way out of it is to stop watching completely, and it may take many months or years to remove the impulses and fetish completely from your brain. You would need to quit porn all together, I don't believe it is possible to quit just a genre - definately look up how to block specific sites on chrome or download a site blocker add-on! Good luck!

 

Don’t feel ashamed or guilty because of this as it is your addiction that makes you attracted to transporn and not sure own personality or mindset. See Porn is very lustful and it can make people watch certain genres that they are not familiar or
previously comfortable with as the brain wants more and more dopamine. So the best thing to do is to retain on Nofap or Semen Retention to start to see women and others in a healthy light and to restore your dopamine levels. First however you should start to work on finding out who you are as a person because these feelings of guilt and shame do not define you in any way that is just the effect of Porn and once you start to break away from Porn and even start to discover new things that you enjoy and find interesting in life you will start to see yourself in a new light. So don’t give in as there is more to you and your life than that.

 

I personally wouldn’t go around defining your sexuality based on what you do as an addict. That would be like a crackhead thinking they’re gay because they gave a bj for some crack-rock.

 

This is some degerate stuff you’re talking about right here. I think you are looking for a more and more exstreme type of sexual desire to keep things fresh and exciting. Stop looking at porn and sexual pictures all togther and maybe you will reset to vanilla stuff

 

Microdosing on physilocieben, meditation and cbt therapy has really helped me and I was in really deep

 

better analogy :
a vegan assuming he is a carnivore because he ate a hotdog to avoid dying of starvation