Flatline After Consistent Sex? Or ED/PA?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by powerwithin89, Aug 28, 2022.

  1. powerwithin89

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    Let me explain a little bit of background before I get to the question.

    I've been addicted to porn for for 10+ years and have been through countless relapses wet dreams and ED problems in the past with a female.

    As I write this, I haven't watched porn or masturbated in 343 days.

    I had successful sex on day 276 (No ED No PA) and was happy as hell for the first time in my life I believe I was cured and still believe I am to this day. But I need a bit of clarification on something before I continue on this journey.

    Recently I have been having consistent sex 2-3 times per week for the past 6 weeks or so with 5 different women. This past Friday night I had sex with a good friend of mine and her girlfriend. We had sex for a good hour ( I have never lasted that long) and I finally ejaculated, which I believe had something to do with delayed ejaculation I think but I'm not sure.

    Now here's what I'm concerned about..

    After having successful sex with these 2 women on Friday night, the very next night (Saturday night), I decided to go see this sexy older cougar woman who I use to work with. Well guess what, I couldn't get it up. I struggled to get the condom on after finding out it was too small (I don't normally wear condoms). I still couldn't get it up even after I ditched the condom. Now I will say I wasn't really horny when I went to go see her but thought I would be able to have sex with her anyway.

    My question is how did I go from being able to slay chick after chick for 6+ weeks with no ED or PA issues (and banging 2 women the night before) to all of a sudden not being able to get an erection last night?

    Could this be a possible flatline? Or did my ed and pa come back? Also, I'm not even feeling horny right now as I usually am. Is it common for guys to jump into a flatline even after having regular consistent sex? I'm confused, need your help with this one guys.
     
  2. ARCEUS

    ARCEUS Fapstronaut

    Bro limit your self.
     
  3. powerwithin89

    powerwithin89 Fapstronaut

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    Elaborate
     
  4. ARCEUS

    ARCEUS Fapstronaut

    You are going out of limit in doing s*x per week. It is somehow unhealthy. Let your body repair from one session, you are just a zoom-zoom type
     
  5. alimamu

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    Stay away from sex for some time.don't worry it's not normal. I think you don't get the attraction in old woman.
     
  6. alimamu

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    Bro have you face the problems of waterly sperm???
     
  7. alimamu

    alimamu Fapstronaut

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    Did you faced the problems of waterly sperm???
     
  8. powerwithin89

    powerwithin89 Fapstronaut

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    This wasn’t your average old woman though. She had a smoking hot body. So it wasn’t because she isn’t attractive , because she is.
     
  9. powerwithin89

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    Not really, I don’t really recall.
     
  10. Thisworld

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    Can you get erect by your own right now with touch only?
    How is your libido?

    Surely overstimulating yourself with lot of orgasms and different women may had been to much for your brain. But the fact is that we are talking about one single episode, so its impossible to say. It cuold have been just PA or tiredness
     
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  11. alimamu

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    Bro what's PA??
     
  12. powerwithin89

    powerwithin89 Fapstronaut

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    Performance Anxiety
     
  13. powerwithin89

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    To be honest yesterday I had a few erections throughout the day when looking at a few women.

    I also got a few random boners today. Which leaves me to believe that I’m not in a total flatline or maybe a mini one.

    My libido is somewhat decent, I’m not overly horny but would get 100% erect if I fantasize without touching myself. So maybe my situation isn’t as bad as I think.
     
  14. Thisworld

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    I think there are good chances that it was just a bit of PA then. Keep us updated
     
  15. powerwithin89

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    Is it possible to experience PA even though I didn’t have it for weeks during successful sexual encounters?
     
  16. Thisworld

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    Yeah. It's just a bit of tiredness/anxiety maybe. Also you had a bit of problem with the condom. I hate condoms too, they make the situation awkward. It happens that sometimes you loose focus because you try to put condom on and then the focus doesn't return so you lose the erection
     
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