Guys I am posing in this section even though am very early in the reboot phase but I think this is worth sharing; I went shopping today and in the mall lots of ladies were checking me out smiling and playing with their hair. This happened on the train also. So I tried calculating how many ladies did eye me up / notice me and my memory went as far as 15 but i think the real figure was about 30-40. To round it up i would say at least 80% of them were attractive ! Now i didn't feel connection / sexual attraction towards them. ... guess it's because am not fully rebooted. I went out with friends last night and ladies also noticed me! This is very encouraging and rewarding for me as it makes me want to strive to succeed and settle down with a beautiful lady. As most of you know just 3-4 days ago i was struggling epically and was lashing out! But from the support of you guys i didn't follow through M and quit half way several times! The rewards are much more worth it and an absolute bliss. I feel so happy....generally!
Yes some. But now its A LOT more. This "noticing" is a bit more than the noticing before. It now includes; 1) eyeing me up 2) looking at me deeply 3) each stare from a girl is much longer than before 4) playing with their hair or neck Put it this way am Asian and normally lots of Asian girls noticed me and some white girls. The girls that noticed me yesterday where 90% white. There were some blacks too! This is a sign that am wanted and cherished. We all are. So why waste ourselves... just 4-5 days ago I was going to relapse I was going "mad" with the withdrawal symptoms.. . 1-2 days withdrawal vs endless days of attention - thank God I didn't relapse!
Haven't had any to be honest But i don't feel moody or angry. I feel happy. I think this is some form of flatline. But its good though because i won't be tempted. The erections are improving though!
The reason they are checking you out is because you are attractive. Its not because you went on NoFap. With that being said. NoFap can make you even more attractive on top of what you already are. Im an atheist, but I truly believe that there is an unknown psychic force surrounding the human body. Its invisible to the human eye but people are able to sense it. Ive tried to be very realistic about NoFap but my experience with it has truly lead me to believe what I do. Its kind of crazy.
Wow, great for you ! I hope your success with the ladies will continue to build up to a great relationship. Unless you are already in one ? Nevertheless, I think it's always a big confidence boost when you feel noticed.
Thanks man . No am not in one and dont want to be yet. Need to reboot fully. I say this from experience because earlier this year i tried to reboot whilst having gf and sex and it was a recipe for disaster! I would take pills to get hard and then do her porn style. Thinking that I am getting real thing i will leave M or Edging. Fact is after sex i would sit and edge and would want to continue sleeping with her non stop... impossible!
I fully understand you. I'm married, so I would not get divorce in order to go through the same journey , but I'm trying to make her understand what I'm going through. I try to be conscious when I'm having sex with her, not to do "porn style" things. It's hard, but it's worth it. But the worst day of PMO temptation is always the day after a relapse. I can hear my brain whispering "come on, porn feels better than the sex you had with your wife, remember this scene, this actress, this scenario, all of it brings you more pleasure !" It's on those days that I have to try twice as hard not to relapse. But what a satisfaction when I went trough it without PMOing
Head over to here for the benefits i gained in 30 days...if you dont want to read the whole essay just read the 6 benefits... http://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/30-days-complete.48736/
Congrats! Keep it up!!! I'm noticing the benefits too! These are my days where my temptations are at their highest! They're raging in my mind, telling me to relapse, but I won't let them defeat me.
