Does anyone experience this? Or something like this? I posted this before but nobody is responding thought I might try a second place.
It's just classic porn addiction and porn induced sexual conditioning. You get more turned on and enjoyment from jacking off to porn than having actual sex. Yes probably most people on people here experience that, or have experienced that. It's very common here.
Interesting thanks for the feedback. I had another guy tell me about a Roman emporor which had his slaves have sex with each other in front of them emporors Tiberius and Caligula. Do you think seeing different possibly more attractive angles can have also something to do with it as well. Me personally i think it's conditioning as well and not really the fact that to some it might look more attractive in it of itself.
Do you usually just look at one woman and one porn scene when you masturbate to porn? Or do you usually look at multiple different women and porn scenes when you masturbate to porn? If it's the latter then you're probably constantly searching something new, while edging so your dopamine keeps rising and rising, to get a better buzz. This is a different behaviour from having real sex. It is very common in this day and age, on high speed internet.
Hmmm.. it's a bit of both. I guess if I really like the girl I might stick to it. But pretty much most of the time I can remember I get the feeling like "I wish I was this guy!" But I guess when it comes to raw desire for sex for myself. Maybe sex drive that has not felt as strong but watching others is still there. Although to be fair this was stronger yesterday when I relapsed like 4 times. Today not as strong I can feel it kind of coming back and like my personal want to personally have sex is slowly coming back to me. But still wanting to watch is there too and I can't really tell if that desire to watch is stronger than the desire to do at least not clearly.
I’m having this issue recently.. I’m entirely not fond of it, not proud of it. I just wish I was normal again.
It goes away as long as you stick to the path I relapsed like 4 times after. A 5 month streak. But during those 5 months I felt more attracted to having sex with real girls then watching porn. It gets better. Even now I feel a little better.
I think once you start watching porn you become a voyeur. You start and the dopamine starts flowing and thenyou orgasm. then next time you LOOK for something more exciting and new. This voyeurism continuesand becomes a viscous cycle. Having sex is more complicated.when you're watching, you're in control. You decide on which girls, what genre and when you orgasm. When you Are with women there are so many variables. Do they enjoy sex like you do, are they in the mood, how does the scene play out? Did everybody get satisfied? Sometimes we just want to get off like animals or by ourselves. It's more work. And it's best not to start prn. It's just not real, it's fantasy. Like hallmark movies for women.
