Hi Guys! I am Femdom addict and I have been like this my whole life, before Corona I managed to stay away from it and then I fell down again because of lockdowns and never stood up again, this shit is destroying my life, all what I am thinking and looking for all time is how to be a personal servant to a lady, I also notice things getting extreme and I am falling into a rabbit hole... It's time to stop watching Femdom porn and to stop looking for girls to make me their servant, those women don't see submissive men are men and will never think of being in a relationship with one, this is a waste of time... In year 2022 I will cut off this shit for ever and focus in my vanilla dating life
These are all horse shit. Femdom porn are the worst porn. All they want is humiliation and torture as a medium to raise your dopamine level. Many people fall for it, in real life too. I have learnt that they have communities for this. So never fall for it, it will make you vulnerable in real situations.
I fell into a fendom trap/"loophole" for about 3 years - but associated with another fetish that was equally as degrading and scary. For the first time in years, I'm finally seeing and thinking straight - and thawing out the fog and anger induced by those fetishes. If you are still periodically viewing this content and relapsing to it, you need gradual (but immediate) action: start chasing after self-improvement/habit-building/nofap-strategy content. Watch and read as much of it as you can (1, 2, 3 hours a day) and have a notepad with you to record any small piece of motivation, information, or wisdom that can guide you. This raw motivation and wisdom will be embedded in your subconscious mind - and it'll become conscious to you whenever you feel an urge. Right now, I keep my laptop split-screen - with habit-building notes always visible to me: (I have separate documents for habit-building and nofap-specific notes.) Whenever I feel an urge (sexual - or just an urge to aimlessly watch YouTube or Netflix), I just glance at the bullets, and it fills me with a surge of clarity. We are heavily influenced by our environment; engineer it to your utmost advantage. I just set up 2-factor authentication on an urge-triggering social media account, deleted the authentication app, and logged out of the account; now, the authentication codes are permanently inaccessible, and there's no way to restore the account. Out of my life, for good. Make progress, make it fast. Goodluck.
Update: I am still on path, I didn't open any porn websites at all and I feel the Fetisch is getting weaker day after day... I am still using some kinky dating platforms tho, I am also still visiting some housekeeping jobs platform just to try and live my Fetisch as a servant for a lady. I actually tried that once but I didn't really like that much, fantasy is much different than reality but at least I go paid I think maybe I should deactivate all my accounts on kinky dating and housekeeping jobs to get rid of it forever
