I have this “odd” problem that I sometimes get a very strong erection/lust caused by fantasies (old memories) and at those times I don’t watch anything or anyone. However, if I watch girls digitally or in real life, I don’t get an erection or feel lust. I haven’t been with a girl really since this problem occurred so I don’t know if this is a problem at all. I suspect it is. I have quit porn since two months ago, though I more or less compulsory (still) jack off before sleep. It didn’t use to be like this, I used to be normal, and this weights strongly on me. It’s as if it’s only a psychological aspect that works now (domination), the visual aspect is gone. It’s as if I’m an old man at best, I’m 37. I have a healthy life style. I’m on medication that /can/ cause diminished lust as a side effect, but I have also consumed a lot of porn for many years. Generally I have very little lust. So I wonder: Any ideas why I don’t get horny in real life and don’t get an erection/become horny from girls? Also, shall I just recondition my self/wait, and if so, how long will it take, or what can I do about this?
Thanks for the reply SoundsGoodToMe, it sounds promising. What do you base your comment on? My problem left with masturbation is discussed here: https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/before-sleep-is-left.322262/
