My addiction to cam girls

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by WhyNotStop, Aug 7, 2021.

  1. Hello everyone, My name is Joshua

    I honestly never thought I'd reach the point of going on cam sites, paying money I should instead be saving, and wasting countless hours on artificial stimulation. I am ashamed but know addiction grows worst in solitude. So here's my admission, I am addicted to cam sites, over having control, I am an addict but I recognize this addiction has continued to destroy my life. It will take willpower and applying myself. This is the first step towards freedom from this. I recognize I am addicted and feel shame from getting to the point of having to distract myself from my negative emotions by resorting to porn chats to temporarily provide me with artificial company from my loneliness. I can't believe I allowed this addiction to slowly cripple my life since age 13. I realize I am not ready for a relationship and want to take the necessary steps to permanently remove this addiction from my life once and for all.
     
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  2. bluesky71

    bluesky71 Fapstronaut

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    You can do this. Cam sites are bad news. The models aren’t there to get off or to be with you….they only want your tips. They don’t care about you and you will never improve your life if you keep going there. Don’t give them money. They will “love” you if you continue to tip. But make no mistake, they will use you for your money and throw you away when you have nothing to give them. Please don’t go there for validation or excitement. And you have no control over them. You think you do and they will play up their reactions to keep you tipping. I went down a deep rabbit hole before waking up.

    Go to the gym, get in shape, and get your life in order. You will be far happier than you will be cumming to cam girls.
     
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  3. Beekind

    Beekind Fapstronaut

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    Start small and build your strength as you go.
    Cam girls were my addiction too.
    But i am long free from it.
    It took me several attempts but i am free.
    You can too
     
  4. AnthonyAsher

    AnthonyAsher Fapstronaut

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    Oh men, cam girls are hard to resist so money will really go out of your wallet. Divert your attention by learning to invest your money like in crypto. In that way, your money can turn into earnings but, beware, you must also have knowledge before investing.
     
  5. Addiction to cam girls has been part of my porn addiction. My addiction to cam girls will come and go. I would spend the money on them and then not go back to it for 4 months, but once i went back i was spending like crazy. I would always tell myself never again, but i fell for the "she really likes me" feeling. One girl would even say she wanted to move in with me. Yep she had me hook, line and sinker. I know it's all an act and they are doing it for money, but some of those cam girls are really good at it.

    I always used a separate card for the cam sites that i used for nothing else. And let me tell you when i filtered my checkbook one year and saw i spent close to 7 grand on cam girls, it was the wake up call I needed. 7 grand and more importantly countless hours spent on them, both are gone forever.

    Thankfully I am about 6 months cam free. Hang strong and you can overcome this addiction. If you're wondering, how have i gone 6 months cam free? First I changed the password to some random thing I will never remember. Sure it's easy to click the "forgot the password" button, but after changing the password I changed the e-mail to some kind of gibberish that is not a valid e-mail address so even if i click that button i'll never get the e-mail to reset the password.
     
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  6. DohnJoe

    DohnJoe Fapstronaut

    Cam sites are where spent the majority of my time when it came to adult content. Idk what it was about them. I guess its because I've never really known how to flirt or talk to a woman in person, but I could do it on those sites. I only ever spent $100 on cam girls. I'm a cheap ass though. We're in this together!
     
  7. Squiddy

    Squiddy Fapstronaut

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    i never liked sites like onlyfans or other cam sites.
    i always viewed it as a waste of money and time. i used to look at them, but they never were interesting. it was not worth the money and time. and my pmo sessions only really lasted a minute out of fear of getting caught, so i want to fix that perception that sex is all about the orgasm and nothing else.