this is me!! I'm super used to my own hand and find it hard to ejaculate during sex. Can this be fixed by not fapping? I hope so. Advice welcome
I had times a couple of years ago that I didn't MO as much and was having regular sex. The longer I went without MO the easier it was to get off without doing it myself (actually those were some of the few times in my entire life I was able to do that). The best way to figure it out is stop P and MO! Also take things slow and find your grove, try relaxing a bit and don't concentrate on getting there, just enjoy the moment.
A man's sexual response adapts to the kind of stimulation that he gets. All sources agree that enough porn and enough of the rougher sort of solo sex eventuates in the inability to get properly stimulated by the soft confines of a live partner. Therefore, NoFap is for you! It's possible to reboot to your factory default settings. Welcome aboard, and stay strong!
I plan too. I am getting married in a year and want to have children. So happy to have found this forum as a place for redemption Thanks for the advice. Commencing reboot in 3.2.1.......initiated
Next human off the factory!!! -_- not a fan of referring to people as restoring to our "factory default."
I apologize. I was just speaking figuratively and being a bit flip. After all, it's machines that we typically "reboot." How about if I amend it to say that it's possible to restore ourselves to respond to the kind of sexual stimulation that God intended when he made us?
