the only thing on my mind is girls. im 19 and its never been this bad. everywhere I go I just wanna fuck. Taking a walk, girls. In the hottub, girls. playing video games, girls. literally anything. the struggle is real, I just wanna be happy not horny.
Got some bad news amigo. Its gna be that way for awhile, your young so what ur feeling is those raging hormones but im pretty sure it'll even out itself. What u need is a busy schedule filled with steam blowing hobbies, working out, running, boxing, recording, painting, dancing, etc. Self control is key young man. And the only way youll learn that is from failing, trying again, failing, rinse and repeat.
well, this is a part of the journey, you cant do much about it. even i sometimes have this same problem. sometimes all your mind wants is sex, deal with it, it is natural. but don't go back to porn, do not succumb. your counter says 'no porn', so i take it you masturbate sometimes. ill say dont fap. a porn-addicted brain will never be happy with just fapping, it will just make you want to go back to watching porn. try the hardmode for 30days or so and see for yourself. goodluck!
Just have real sex or masterbate, don't get into porn. Enjoy it! Don't watch porn or you'll end up with PIED!
Hottub? In my experience, pray.. Constantly pray for clarity and these feelings of being horny will fade away. I have done with countless times and kept my mind busy and as long as you have your will power, and spirit you will get better. I recommend you getting outside for at least 1 hour every day as it will clarify your head, you might think it won't but it does work wonders. Secondly exercise to release the feelings horniness. When you exercise your brain will release more dopamine and neurons. So that it will make you feel better each day... If you don't know any exercise programs or work outs to do. I can recommend Insanity by Shaun T. I did this for 60 days and it did transform me. If you search online you will find some videos posted up. If you can and have time I suggest doing a work out in the mornings right away and it will prepare you for your day.
I feel the same way, my urges are really hard and require serious self-control and other hobbies to get over. I am really struggling with PMO, relapsing very regularly these days... trust me you're not alone. I have faith that we can get out of the habit though, others have done it, and you are in the right place.
Bro being 19 and horny is ABSOLUTELY NORMAL! I was horny at 19, I was Hornier at 29 and I'm insanely even HORNIER in my 30s. You need to stop seeing being horny as a problem and see it as energy that needs to be directed. My advice ? don't fap, go get a jump rope, weights (or a gym membership) run, exercise, work on your body and self and go out and meet and sleep with girls. And importantly AVOID porn
I'm not the only one! I want sex more now in my 30s than in my teens!!!! Whoever said sex drive dies down is lying!!! Haha
It's normal, when I ran my numbers I slept with more 18 & 19 yo's when I was in my 30s than in my 20s My sex drive has remained constantly strong, it's normal. Self control is the key thing, right now I don't and haven't whacked off in weeks or more, my outlet is just love making with my partner that's it, in those moments I can direct all my horniness and release, it's well worth it with far more intensity. Self control, self regulation is the key and it takes time and mental discipline
LOL! Nah bro, by 19 I hadn't even slept with anyone.... To be fair my best sex years was late 20's and into my 30s, more stamina, more experience and more enjoyable. Some of us are just wired to be more horny than others, it's in our mental wiring. It's how we can harness and control that energy and drive that will make the difference, and that's what many are seeking here in this forum