What's the longest you have gone without O, or release?

I hate to seem like an asshole, but masturbation isn't a part of our evolution. People around the world in many middle eastern countries don't masturbate and I'm sure they are much better off without it.

It is something western society has created. We did not evolve to masturbate and there is no factual evidence that it helps "prevent prostate cancer" or "stops the risk of an infection". It's all just mumbo jumbo made to sell porn my friend. Don't believe the lies.

Edit: the person I know currently with the most time behind them without any p, m, or o is my friend @NoBrainer. Maybe he can shed some light on the subject for you.

 

Wet dreams are how you release when doing hard mode. Continue on after 3 weeks and you will continue to have wet dreams until you begin having sex with another person. All of those studies are either funded by biased people, or transported around the web through untrustworthy media sources such as Fox News. There is no proven "prevention" for prostate cancer, but, like all other cancers, it is helpful to have a healthy diet, healthy weight, and regular exercise. Even if it were true, it wouldn't be masturbation itself which would prevent prostate cancer, it would be ejaculation. That can be achieved through other ways, there isn't anything suggesting your hand around your dick is what's lowering your cancer risk.

I will leave this post by another member @IGY for you to read.

 

There are studies, not hard evidence. Studies and evidence are two different things. There are just as many, maybe more studies saying mastubation is bad. You can't ignore those studies and just read the ones that say it is good. You are basing your opinion off of other people's opinions.

Make the decision yourself. Do you really think mastubation is good for you? We were not made asexual. We were not made to fuck ourselves.

 

It is tough, people doing hard mode rely on wet dreams as their sole "sexual activity". The benefits far outweigh any frustration that results from this. NoBrainer is a really good example of this, as Sun Bro said. He has gone over 200 days. It is doable, and I don't believe he is keeling over with infections at the moment.

Your body will release when it needs to. It can take care of itself. Don't come back here week 4 asking where your next wet dream is. I suggest you keep going as long as you possibly can (without thinking that your body needs P, M, or O) and tell us how you feel.

 

Longest streak without orgasm: 35 days
Currently at day 14

And it is great!
The idea is not to "suppress".
The idea is to use the energy, and to get used to a constant "flow", where your energy is constantly flowing, without harsh extremes.

BTW: Your balls will not explode.

 

You can have looooong periods without wet dreams, It happens to me during a short part of my life when I worked in the army.
I think it greatly depends of what you have in mind. If your mind is focus and busy, and by the way you use your energy to do something really absorbing, you will not have wet dreams.

It is my own experience, I can be totally wrong.

 

It's also my experience, and it shows that PMO is meaning "waste of energy" due to "lack of focus", and "lack of self-organization"

At the army, your life is organized. You have commands, a schedule, a plan, plenty of things to do, and your body is worn out.

At home, you are your own commander. You can decide how you spend your time.
Does your "own army" have a goal, a plan and a schedule ?

 

And also mine. But to answer your question, the longest I have ever went without any kind of O, was around...35 days or so? 40? That's how long it took for the first wet dream to happen. My last wet dream was about 30 days ago.
But I think the body can get rid of excess semen in other ways. Often when I pee and I look at it, I see that semen was mixed with the piss. Therefore I must think that I'm getting a release, it's just not as violent as an orgasm. Sorry for the gross details, I just wanted to share, maybe someone else noticed it too.

 

@Sun Bro and @Strugglesaurus are 100% right in what they have said in their messages. I was going to link to the thread you did (^), so thanks for doing that. It is useful in two ways. It demonstrates that masturbation isn't 'natural' and all guys do it. Also, that studies are often skewed in favour of a particular result, giving a false outcome.

Furthermore, the body does not rely on wet dreams alone to replace sperm and seminal fluid. I experienced wet dreams in the early part of my hard mode streak on NoFap. Latterly, that stopped and I noticed that some semen would come away when I had a pee. That has continued until now. It is also reckoned that the body can simply reabsorb the nutrients from the unused cells back into the body. To say ejaculation in some form is necessary every 3-4 weeks is simply a nonsense and unproven.

 

Hi 12ove,

I'm doing hard mode and I wouldn't have it any other way (at this point in my life). I have a wet dream every 4-5 weeks at the moment.

In regards to your health concerns, it has not been shown that a man needs to ejaculate a certain number of times during any given period of time to avoid diseases and maintain prostate health. The body breaks down and recycles sperm cells just like every other cell in the body.

 

As stated above, you must rely on wet dreams/ nocturnal emissions and semen released in your urine if you are doing hard mode. It's not quite true that you have to go without orgasms if you're on hard mode, as you'll most likely orgasm during a wet dream.

I found in the first 4 months of my current streak I had a wet dream about once every 40 days. However, since then I've had wet dreams every 2-3 weeks on average. I sympathise with those on hard mode, as sexual energy and urges can get pretty darn crazy for 'long' periods without sexual release.

If you're doing hard mode, my advice would be to try to be content with not knowing when your next sexual release will be and instead try to re-channel your sexual energy into other areas of your life, such as exercising or focusing on your career/ life goals. Good luck.

 

My longest streak without orgasms is 50 days. In this 50 days I never masturbated but I had sex with my girlfriend (but I was unable to come). I was not having any problem with my genitalia. In the end I masturbated in front of my girlfriend because she wanted to see me coming, being afraid that I couldn't come at all. After my DE went better and I started to come during sex with her. I didn't experienced any wet dreams in those 50 days.

The only possible drawback about not having any sexual activity for long time can be that when after you have you can have some issues like ED, or PE. Masturbation doesn't solve the problem, because it can also leat to ED and PE and also to DE. With porn, even worse.
Not masturbating in any case will give you a lot of benefits in
- self control
- self confidence
- determination
- social interactions