Hey guys, been inactive lately due to college being really hard and requiring a lot of work DAY 2 AND 3: They were good and I stayed strong, chaser effect is still strong.. I managed to flirt with a girl tonight and not masturbate, I feel extremely happy about that Onwards and upwards for me
You know what! forget that post, I relapsed again... The same flipping way did last time.. I met someone on the Web Im not sure if it's just that, I'm stressed at the moment and v lonely.... How do I deal with this
Ultimately Today I realized I am at a crossroads, in that my sexual desire is now very high and this is exactly the time, I would usually consider myself ready for PMO, as I feel i have a strong sexual urge that i need to releive now! But this is not good, as once I've done PMO, then my sexual desire goes away, and I really need to be utilizing my sexual energy with my wife in the bedroom. So I will continue on now, and I refuse to give in to these urges, i will hold out and I am only going to utilize my sexual desire with my wife when able to.
my motto, is just keep on. every day it is getting harder, the pressure is building physically and mentally, but my attitude is, the harder it gets, the more I will not give in! And I am succeeding one day at a time. I look forward to reaching the 30 day mark!
Hello everyone, I'm joining this challenge too! I'm at the day 7 and I'm holding on because it's getting harder for real..
hang in there, these urges come and go! they are intense when they come, but just remind yourself, that it is only WITHDRAWAL and your body ADJUSTING. Distract yourself and in a few hours or the next day, the urge will be gone.
yay, still going strong, no PMO for 10 days now...did have real sex with wife which was great! My goal is not the HARD challenge, int hat my goal is to only O when having actual sex with my wife. We dont have sex often as i notice she only likes to have sex during the fertile time of the month, which is basically one week during the month. I am happy to have sex like this once a month, and the rest of the time my goal is to make sure I keep NOFAP in place. There will be no PMO, or MO, at all. I will use the time to build upself up physically, and mentally, Im finding NOFAP helps with this.
Day 1...... No PMO. I had a very strong urge to masturbate yesterday night. My insomnia had often made me to masturbate. I am starting this challenge again.
going well, just got back fro vacation. nearing 2 week mark of no O, I have tried to initiate sex with my wife a few times, but she was not in the mood, as we have young kids, she was tired. But I did get to at least snuggle a bit with her, the other morning and feel her a bit. She declined sex as it was the morning and the kids were already up and playing the the other room. So will be two week without O, I m quite shocked that i have gone so long. Will be 1 month no PMO very soon too.
I joined recenlty 90 days and 60 days, but I think It is smarter to build things up, since I failed very quickly. I join this challenge and I will try to go from 30 to 60 and from 60 to 90 days! I wish everyone all the best!
hectic night, last night, had a lot of sexual urges in bed, and wife was sleeping, I admit i did fantasize about visiting a prostitute! Something I have never ever done, but I was that overcome my sexual urges. luckily after 10 minutes, the desire went away and i felt a very pleasurable wave of bliss move upward, invigorating me, has any one here had this experience before?
Well I had a slight set back a few days ago. I had very strong sexual urges, and I had finally managed to have some sexual interaction with my wife. But unfortunately she was not in the mood, and I did not want to force her, but she saw my condition and we snuggled and I did O while with her, which was a nice sexual interaction, but I would always prefer to have proper sex, but i guess I was feeling desperate. The following day, I was still having strong urges and MO'ed while reading sex stories on the internet! Well, it happened. So this was a slight setback. But don't worry because right away after that i resolved to start again and get back on the programme. I also tried to learn from the mistake, the mistake I realized is that if you start fantasizing about things and putting yoru attention on porn in whatever way shape or form, or thinking about visiting a prostitute etc, it will come back to bite you, you have to nip it int he bud, on the though level itself, on the level of attention. Well Im back on the programme, and I will now resent my counter...
well things have been going well, easy actually. I find the first week after O very easy. It seems to take me about a week and then those sexual urges start to return full force. but my goal now is to continue for the 30 days. And hopefully engage sexually with my wife at some point, as last time, i didn't cope going without O for 2 weeks. It got hard. The paradox is the more you focus on it, the worse it, gets, if you are not thinking about it, it is much easier.
Hey guys. I am back. I relapsed many time since I have updated my status previously. But now its 8 days of no MO. I don't know why i am not considering it as a success. My face is full of pimples now. I thought leaving MO would help. But it didn't till now. My pimples are getting worse. Is it a sign of withdrawl??
