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Disabled and desperate for companionship

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Feelslikezoom23, May 15, 2020.

  1. Feelslikezoom23

    Feelslikezoom23 Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone,

    I keep it short and sweet. I’m a disabled guy who is restricted physically and socially. The last time I was intimate with a woman was 8 years ago.
    I’ve reduced my PMO dramatically. Now it’s just to girls in bikinis on Instagram every 7-10 days look at. Which is slowly phasing out.

    I’m lost.....I don’t know how to fulfill my need for a companion without looking at girls on the internet. PMO ain’t twice a month at the moment.
    I know that if I had a partner my desire for PMO would be just about over.

    Any thoughts or suggestions?
     
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  2. Candun

    Candun Fapstronaut

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    Well, you know you can find a real life companion since you've done it before!
    I imagine the whole "quarantine" thing will make it a lot harder to meet new people, but that will be over before you know it. In the meantime, I would advise staying away from pmo of your addicted and continuing to make the most out of this time by building upon or creating new healthy habits.
     
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  3. verbeek75

    verbeek75 Fapstronaut

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    Hi,
    I'm in the same boat as you are, it is a lot easier giving advise to healthy people as they don't have any real restrictions. Healty people have no idea how lucky they are, I wish I could go back in time and kick myself in the nuts for letting time go by looking at porn instead of doing a lot of other things. As I don't know the level of your disability it is a bit hard to give suggestions.

    If you still can go outside there are still things you can do, like take art lessons, learn a new language or other type of lessons that many women or other people attend. These places most of the time are disabilty friendly too. Or maybe you still can do some form of sports. Maybe you can come up with some hobby you can do that can bring you in contact with other people.
    Last year I met a woman in a electric wheelchair who is completely disabled, can't walk and has disfigured arms but still played pokemon go so she could meet other people playing outside.

    If you are like me mostly stuck at home, then I'm sorry I don't know myself as I also feel very isolated and lonely too. Using the internet chatting with people is nice but really miss the physical connection.
    I'm also sure if I had someone my addiction for PMO would be a lot easier to overcome. Sure there are dating sites maybe one day will try those.

    Sorry if couldn't give you much advise.
     
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  4. Feelslikezoom23

    Feelslikezoom23 Fapstronaut

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    There’s nothing to be sorry for. Your are just being honest. A lot of what your saying is very true. Yes the internet just can’t substitute the physical connection. I guess there comfort in knowing that you and I are not alone.....there are hundreds of thousands of people disabled and lonely...
     

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