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New Fapstronaut in desperate need, over 20 years of addiction!!!

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Fitboy05, Jun 2, 2015.

  1. Jun 2, 2015 #1
    Fitboy05

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    Hi everyone,

    Seeking for help on how to stop the porn/masturbation addiction I came across with this resource. I have been watching porn and constantly masturbating for over 20 years (I'm almost 34 now) yeah, I know, it's crazy!!!
    Im a married man with a beautiful 7 months old little boy, I have a great job, my family loves me and I'm surrounded by greats friends, but for some reason I don't appreciate any of that, I'm full of hate, guilt, only negative words come out my mouth, I dedicate over an hour to porn daily and is killing me. This page is a huge sign of hope to me because I don't really know what to do anymore, I feel so mad that I have wasted thousands and thousands of hour watching porn when I could use it for something more productive.
    I see women as dirty objects that only can provide sexual satisfaction, I have ad void to go out with friends and my sex life with my wife is so cold and without any emotion or passion, it's clear that porn has done a severe damage on my spirit and who I am, I even distance myself from God.

    I want to start this journey of recovery and I will fight with everything I got to move on and discover how beautiful life is without those harmful fantasies. Today is my second day without porn or masturbation and will keep going stronger, trying not to relapse one day at the time.

    Thank you in advance for taking the time to reading this post. God bless you all.

    Best,
    FitBoy05
     
    Last edited: Jun 3, 2015
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  2. Jun 2, 2015 #2
    Blondewife

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    2 days is a great start! Congratulations. We look forward to hearing more from you!
     
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  3. Jun 2, 2015 #3
    TrueLucid

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    Welcome Fitboy05 - congrats on getting to 2 days! Every day is an opportunity to keep the no-PMO chain going. You can do this!
     
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  4. Jun 3, 2015 #4
    Fitboy05

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    Day 3 here we go!! Today is going to be a real test for me, im going to be alone all day here in my house, I want to prove myself that I can do this. Let's go!!!
     
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  5. Jun 3, 2015 #5
    jason3

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    Today is the real test. If you have to get out of your house. Get out. "Flee sexual sin." Remember that if you are a Christian like your avatar seems to suggest, that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit. Your body is sacred because God is in you. Cherish His presence and don't grieve Him.
    Man we're in this together. Fight!
     
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  6. Jun 3, 2015 #6
    Fitboy05

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    Thank you Jason!!
    Im not exacxly a Christian, i chose the quote on my avatar beacusr I think is very powerful, dont get me wrong, nothing agian Christians at all. I do want to combine this resource, my willpower and the strengh from God to get out of this hell. Thank you again for your message, i dont know about tomorrow but will stay strong TODAY!!
     
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  7. Jun 3, 2015 #7
    Roose28

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    Goodluck man! 2 days' good! you might think that's not good enough, but its a start.
    I've relapsed every other day prior to me joining.
     
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  8. Jun 3, 2015 #8
    calvintaiwan

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    welcome my friend
    first of all, good to know that you have a new born son^^ congrats!

    I am a christian too and I can totally understand what you mean when you say pron distances you from God
    you know what, you are totally right about that
    but fear not, God has used NoFap to help me a great deal and I'm sure it'll also work for you
    here are my tips for going lust-free (and no, by saying lust here I don't include sex within marriage):

    1. read the Bible every morning before school/ work: put on the whole armor of God before you enter the battlefield, for we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but againt demons. They are sly!

    2.exercise regularly: whether it's weight-lifting or jogging, it'll help you a great deal in distracting you away from lust

    3.when ever you feel like edging, come to NoFap and read the success stories. If that still ain't work, pray to God. Keep praying and don't stop until the feeling fade away

    God be with Ye
     
    calvintaiwan, Jun 3, 2015
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  9. Jun 4, 2015 #9
    Fitboy05

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    Day 4 without porn or masturbation, is getting very difficult but my desire to move on is bigger. Let's go!!!
     
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  10. Jun 5, 2015 #10
    Roose28

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    if you get a hard-on just by looking at girls, photos or porn, just think that those people there are human beings as well with emotions and feelings.
    worked for me so far :)
    Goodluck men.
     
    Roose28, Jun 5, 2015
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