Please help: foot femdom fetish ~~~~ * Possibly triggering text ! *

I'm sure you'll find things clearing up after a few months man. Even a few weeks you may notice changes. Just try your best to push through days when you may feel down, as things like headaches and mood changes can just be signs your brain is healing.

An interest in feet is likely the most common fetish for men, and it can be enjoyed without having any link to BDSM. Many (probably most) women LOVE getting a foot massage from a guy they like.

It can be one of the best ways to settle the nerves and turn on both partners before actual sex!

Try as you may to find normal interests in porn, the brain is unfortunately 'bonding' or 'connecting' with a screen. You may watch regular vanilla porn, then be in bed with a regular girl to try that regular stuff, but it won't work because she's not a screen.

I would recommend doing your best to stay on track for a few months. And during that time, get to know some girls as friends, enjoy learning about them, practice your communication and eye contact, and you could even ask some out for dates when/if you feel ready.

 

Just take it one day at a time. You’re young as hell. You don’t want to be my age (32) and having PIED and failed relationships. Just do the NoFap and get rid of your triggers (feet) theyre like porn to you. Don’t look at them. If you do, just walk away. One day at a time. You can call it NoTof aka No To Feet lol. Sooner or later down the road you’ll meet a girl whom you’ll fall in love with and not only will you worship her feet but you’ll also worship her entire body in a healthy way.

 

Good job buddy! Impressive work! Consitency is key!
Why do you think femodm makes girls less attractive? do you mean you dont get turned on by them if they are not dominant if so makes sense, but i dont get the thing with femdom in itself makes girls less attractive? wouldn´t it be opposite or how do you mean by that?

 

I lost my virginity with 25 y.o because i always had a strong foot fetish and the one thing i could feel excited and fantazise was about feet. So i met this girl who was confortable with my foot fetish and let me indulge it and we end up having straight sex. i met some girls who like femdom stuff and i realize i didnt like much that so i stopped to feel so attracted and fantasizing about these stuffs anymore and started to want more straight sex.

Observation : I was really addicted to porn i practice edging to foot stuff since my 15 and femdom stuff since my 18.
I realize that before i started to watch porn i already had the foot fetish and had fantasies invlolving foot fetish like being stepped and many others. And the PMO just intensified that to 1000000x times haahahahahaha. If you want some tips pm me.

 

Good shit bro, I personally have struggled with a similarish fetish. And I've come to the conclusion that it comes down to thinking/seeing yourself as someone with low self worth. Essentially, confidence issues. In many ways, it's easier to submit as a man than it is to conquer. Sometimes we submit because of bad situations and conquering isn't necessarily an option but as we get older, we don't need such coping mechanisms and we can let ourselves become masculine men who want to conquer instead of submit.

 

Yes, i had one today ahahahha, this is a wet dream, sometimes this happens with a erotic dream or without an erotic dream.

Today was the third time that happened on this reboot.

I dreamed with a girl from my childhood, she was putting their fott on my face so i cummed ahahahah. This is normal when rebooting. and its called wet dream. and not count as a reset.