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110 Days into Nofap... Dick still as Limp as Partially Cooked Penne Pasta

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Lee Grayson, Feb 16, 2020.

  1. Feb 16, 2020 #1
    Lee Grayson

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    It's been quite awhile since I've posted on this forum.

    I usually try to stay away from reminding myself of my addiction and continue on with my life. But over the past few weeks I've been having doubts that I wanted to get out of my head, and perhaps get some feedback while I'm at it.

    So, where to begin? Well, like the title suggests, I'm 110 days into nofap. And life's been great. I've seen plenty of benefits that Nofappers around the globe have been saying. In general I feel happier, healthier, more motivated, etc.

    The problem?

    For some damn reason I still have PIED. Or more accurately I'd say that I'm still in flatline. Nothing turns me on. Nothing. My dick is like the neck of a scared turtle. Shriveled, receeding… you get the point.

    Meanwhile I've been reading posts by guys who had rubbed calluses on their dick from watching beastiality who'd recovered faster than me (obvious sarcasm btw but not that far from the truth).

    Is there something I'm doing wrong? I mean I masturbate once or twice a week but we're all human here. I really only masturbate not because I want to per say, but because about once or twice a week I get an irrational fear that my dick has stopped working. Which by and large it has for the past 6 years of my life lmao.

    So, if you have any recommendations I would appreciate them. Also please share your stories of how long it took you to get over PIED (only if it took longer than how long its taking me hahaha, I don't wanna here from the bastards that recovered in 2 weeks LMAO).

    This has been fun to write. I may start posting more on here just for the fuck of it.

    Saludos desde España cabrones,

    Lee
     
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  2. Feb 16, 2020 #2
    Kmjhyd

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    Did u watch porn in these 110 days ?
     
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  3. Feb 16, 2020 #3
    ThomasTheCat

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    I've the same problem man. I think we just neeed to wait
     
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  4. Feb 16, 2020 #4
    ThomasTheCat

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    OBS: I've only MO without P on 1 january
     
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  5. Feb 16, 2020 #5
    Lee Grayson

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    Nope, but I have been using it daily since I was 12-17 years old pretty hardcore, then slowed down alot at 18. Just turned 19 a few months back.

    I've heard it takes longer for early starters like myself, but I'd like a timeline so I don't worry and just cruise for however much longer it takes.
     
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  6. Feb 16, 2020 #6
    Supination

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    Hey there bro!
    I have also been suffering from PIED and flatlines for a while and that's the main reason why i joined nofap almost 2 years ago. During those 2 years i had up and downs, got to 160 days no pmo twice and a few more streaks. Between almost every streak i relapsed to porn but mainly to pictures. I tried going nofap without P and only masturbation like you but it didnt seem to solve my problem, And i felt like i'm losing my progress. So for me, hard mode is the way.

    From my experience and from what i've seen in many posts here i realised that:

    1) No Porn only isnt enough for many PIED sufferers some people can heal with M'ing and some people must avoid it. It's really individual. You have to get rid of masturbation too. M is an addiction by itself. You're probably M'ing to pixels..which is terrible for your brain. And you keep practicing your dick to be dependent on your hands and pixels to get it up.. give yourself a good amount of time without M'ing and see how it goes. DO NOT CHECK YOURSELF!

    2)Many people and I find it easier to heal when you have a partner you can trust. its also mentioned in YBOP website. Having sex is so important in order to heal and get your sensitivity back. The whole point of us, pied sufferes, Is to rewire our dick and brain to the real natural thing. PIED Has caused us performance anxiety for sure. I'd suggest you to read about karezza sex, it has definitely helped me . Do not force yourself to have sex if you dont feel like it though it's all good. If it's not going to work at first Do not worry, It takes time and patience!

    I really feel you man, PIED sucks, but you always have to remind yourself why you started nofap in the first place. No matter what it takes, we have to do our best!
    Good luck! Keep updating ;)
     
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  7. Feb 16, 2020 #7
    Rom83839

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    Do not touch your penis at all, not even for peeing, just clean it giving a few light touches to the tip hole.
    When you take a shower clean at first the glans, then penis and balls, then forget about it again and clean the rest of your body.

    I mean almost zero contact to your penis.

    You’ll see in no more than a week erections will come back, when it happens, don’t touch it, specially never stroke it.

    After erections are back or after one week with zero contact, you may give you some ball massage to relief the sexual tension, but don’t touch the penis.
     
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