What are your thoughts on fantasies?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by CuthbertRogerson, Jan 17, 2020.

  1. CuthbertRogerson

    CuthbertRogerson Fapstronaut

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    I’ve got through another day, but there were odd occasions where I caught myself daydreaming and had to check myself. What are your thoughts on this?

    My initial belief is that this is probably as bad as porn, if what you fantasise about is similar in nature to the porn you consume. I’m pretty sure they’re going to get stronger and more invasive, but I want to get an opinion from folks here about what they think.

    Is it ok to daydream and fantasise so long as you don’t MO? By which I mean it doesn’t reduce the rebooting.

    Or should we seek to abolish all fantasy as well?

    I’m leaning towards they should be avoided at the moment, but I’d like other people’s views on such matters.

    Even if it doesn’t have a direct effect on the reboot, I’m thinking that indulging them might make the actual avoiding of PMO more difficult.


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  2. Iwannaimprove

    Iwannaimprove Fapstronaut

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    i have the same problem fk my life