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11-12 years of denial and finally on the right track

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by goingstrong4aslongaspossible, Dec 20, 2019.

  1. Dec 20, 2019 #1
    goingstrong4aslongaspossible

    goingstrong4aslongaspossible Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys, I am brand new here... I am currently on a 19-day streak. I have not gone this long since high school ( I am 24 years old). The biggest issue for me is not finding a girl that I love having sex with. For 2 years I have not had sex which is awful. My longest relationship has been about a month. For years I denied that porn was the reason. Finding this group and realizing how many people struggle alongside me amazed me. This truly is an addiction that is very VERY hard to kick. My goal for next year is to attract the right female into my life and to be a lot more open about this problem I had.

    I went to a high school in an above-average income suburb. Since 2009 my high school has had 10 deaths from OD. I never got into hardcore drugs. Porn was my escape from the real world. Everywhere I traveled I watched porn. I hid it from my friends, family, and everyone.

    The reason I am writing this is for anyone else that is thinking of stopping or is struggling. This SHIT IS HARD. 95% of people can't. I was in that 95%. What motivates me is speaking about this issue months from now. I envision a life where I am free of this addiction that is what pushes me :)
     
    goingstrong4aslongaspossible, Dec 20, 2019
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  2. Dec 20, 2019 #2
    Eridor67

    Eridor67 Fapstronaut

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    Nice to see new face!

    I am currently on day 50, I was struggling with this for year and half. This is my lonegst streak.

    My recomendations for you - and now seriously man, take it as order if you want to go to the end, you hear me?

    1) Set a day counters in your phone - one that counts days, second counting down periods. This rises motivation.

    1,5) Always respect sleep, download sleep as android for android or for ios alternative, look for smart sleep reminder integrated for giving you more advice when to go to bed.
    When you sleep, your brain is making most adjustments, always respect sleep and see some videos for more info - no electronics hour before bed!!

    2) No coffein, no artifical sugar.

    3) Do not ever think about even about peeking to porn, or just saying it wont hurt. IT WILL HURT AS IT SETS YOU BACK TO DAY ZERO.

    4) Your days will become nightmare, every last of them. As you appoarch flat line, your brain temporarily slows everything - bad sleep, brain fog, hard sexual urges respect rule 4)

    5)You will later become sexualy dead. No interest, no erection. Dont test it!

    This is what I wished I knew before I started nofap.
    Good luck
     
    Eridor67, Dec 20, 2019
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  3. Dec 20, 2019 #3
    i_have_pizza

    i_have_pizza Fapstronaut

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    This "one month relationship" happend a couple of times to me. I guess it's an exect period you need to pass to get used to each other or understand that you need to break.
     
    i_have_pizza, Dec 20, 2019
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  4. Dec 20, 2019 #4
    goingstrong4aslongaspossible

    goingstrong4aslongaspossible Fapstronaut

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    This is amazing thank you bro

     
    goingstrong4aslongaspossible, Dec 20, 2019
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