Hello everyone, it's been some years that i'm a porn addict but it's not the real problem actually, i think i could beat this addiction if i wasn't addicted to interracial porn and all the stuff that goes with (cuckold, feminization...). I'm so deep into this that i even started to want to suck cocks while i'm straight and when i'm not horny i don't even think of it. So my question is: How do i quit this addiction? how do i stop being triggered when i see an interracial couple, go M like a piece of shit and feeling very bad after it? I know that if i can beat this IR addiction i can quit porn after that because it's literaly the only thing that make me come back when i try to stop. Thank you in advance for your answers!
First of all you must remove the stuff that is causing you this problem in the first place... And that is the IR porno material with the fetishes you mentioned. I know it sounds cliche but the sooner you stop ingesting poison, the faster you will recover. It's the same with any addiction, you have to replace the drug with something healthier. It may be writing, reading, jogging, blogging, hiking etc. But you need to start doing something in your empty time. Get busy and your task becomes instantly easier. Good luck and best wishes -MSH
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Seems like you've received a few good responses already. Heed their advice. To toss in my $0.02, you have to quit porn immediately, cold turkey. It sounds like you're in pretty deep and that it has its claws in your mind. What I mean is, as long as you keep looking at porn, it will continue to refresh your triggers and keep that trash stuck on your mind. It will be very hard to let it go. Your own mind will tempt you with fantasies. You'll need to stay busy and keep your mind occupied. Having an emergency plan for sudden urges is a must as well. I usually tell people to stop what you're doing and take a walk. Or, at least put yourself in situation that you don't want to M in. If you can endure, and believe me you can, the triggers will fade over time. The idea is to make yourself too busy to indulge in the addiction.
Thank you all for your answers! i've deleted all my porn stuff, i'll try to stay busy and never think of this IR bullshit again. I really hope all my triggers will disapear and finally live a real life out of this addiction.
a video and a available course about finding the inner causes concerning this fetisch. Basicly about the underlying pain which the subconcious transforms into pleasure to avoid feeling pain as a defence mechanism. And dealing with it from a multitude of angles. I'm currently looking into solving this issue myself also. Best of luck to you on your journey.
Please can you explain why you are turned on because the people having sex are from a different countries or at least with different colour skin? Why is it more addicting if the woman is black and the man is white or Asian for example? Thanks.
