Hey guys/gals, I need help, I'm currently on day (check out my counter) and I know it will get harder to control my PMO addiction as the days roll by. I would like to request from anyone who would like to just call me out when you can at least once a day to just ask like... "Dude! Did you jerk off today?!" I'm not sure if that's too weird... But I think that's what I would need, to be accountable to my commitment. I'm not sure if anyone is doing this right now? I surely don't have the guts to ask a friend outside this forum to do this for me right now. So if anyone would want to be my NoFap police? (The more the better maybe?) I'm willing to return the favor to also call you out everyday. thanks, just reply to this if anyone is interested to be my NoFap police. (Sounds funny, NoFap police)
Sounds like a good idea, I'm in. So tell me about what you have experienced of cravings and other things related to no PMO today? And most important, you haven't relapsed after you posted this right?
lol! Thanks GoAway! No... I haven't relapsed yet since I posted this open call.. Still 3 day clean. Triggers, triggers... Thinking about boobs. Just the general habit of having my hands in my pants when I'm alone, specially on the weekends. I'm not in a relationship so more alone time after work. ( which I know the reason why I'm not in a relationship is because I just jerk off too much and loose. Any interest in getting one) too much information? So, can I count on you to just check on me when you can? Would you like me to check on you as well? Police each other?
At good tip for not having you hand down your pants is to wear some tight pants and a belt. Don't take your pants off, before you have shut down your computer and is going to bed. In the weekends you have to get up as quickly as possible after you wake up. Do not lay in bed with your computer or phone. Get up and be productive! Yeah sure you can count on me. I will try to write to you as often as I can. Probably every other day or so. And I would love if you also check up on me and force me to talk and reflect about what I am going through on that particular day.
Great tips! I'll try them, I know for sure a belt will annoy the heck out of me but I'll give it a shot. Cool! Let the NoFap police work commence!
I can see that you haven't relapsed yet like I have. I relapsed 2 days ago. When the urges came i just couldn't resist and ended up masturbating. I have analyzed what happened and the reason why I masturbated was because of a website I have used a lot in the past for nonpornographic activities, where it was possible to download porn. I have now blocked that site and a couple of other sites in k9 web protection, so now i won't get tempted there. How are you going and how do you handle your urges?
I'm glad you two found each other! I've had the same accountabilabuddy for a year and a half now, and even though we've only ever texted, we're really close. And just for future reference, we have an "Acounatability Buddies" (or partners, maybe?) section of the forums for this very thing.
