I looked at suicide and job fatalities. I looked at car accidents and even war. But none can compare to porn. Porn is the #1 killer of men. It kills you on the inside the same way any other deaths will. Your time, energy, goals, freedom and life are sacrificed “before your eyes” You need to understand something. When you see men worshipping cam girls... When you see videos and advertisement focusing on body parts. When you see girls in public wearing things not for comfort, but for attention.... You should be upset. Upset and awakened to the fact that you are in a war zone. A war that is about your time, goals, passions, gifts, energy, confidence and manhood are being sacrificed to a distraction. A distraction called porn. Genesis 4:7 sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must rule over it.
It's something that needs to be taken more seriously, Granted it's talked about more today But sadly a lot of people see Porn Addiction as a joke.
It is a joke until people get stuck on it and start having sexual problems. Then and only then people care about this issue.
Welcome to the forum, I can see already that you've got many positive and wonderful things to share with the community. Looking forward to reading more from you.
You are right and i am the one who is involved in this activity for more than 10 years. I have tired now but can not quit, actually my internal emotions are now attached to porn.
Hey @jit788 , welcome to the forum. I know what you mean-- but it IS possible! We can all do this. There is definitely an emotional attachment to porn but it is not healthy. As we grow and learn, and become stronger, it is possible to get rid of that unhealthy attachment and build a healthier relationship with ourselves and the world around us.
I do not think that you should be upset but instead take those things lightly to empower the energy you got from stopping PMO. Like "oh, I see how ridiculous it is now that I'm not interested by it anymore". At least that's what I tell to myself and it works. But yeah I can understand it can be upsetting since a lot of people get trapped into it without thinking.
As much I hate pornography, you are taking it to far saying it is worse than all those things. You can recover from an addiction, you cannot recover from being dead.
Porn will cost you everything. When was a kid i was always the best student and excelled at every part of life. But 9 years of porn addiction and 4 years of booze am at the lowest in every aspect of my life