Sexting

Loved the Gollum analogy.

So here’s the first thing.

1). How do you know you are talking to girls ? Have you ever been catfished? Would knowing you are talking to another guy change your feelings on sexting ?

2. What feeling starts you down this path? Try to identify it. For example desire ? Loneliness? Boredom?

3. How much time do you normally spend in texting ?

 

Make sure you are clear that: sexting is porn.

 

You probably were sexting with an overweight anime fan living in his mother's basement named Chuck.

 

Just to let you know many guys like to seduce and chat. It’s probably majority guys like every club you go to... more guys than girls ... sausagefest

 

Trance is a good word. You need to jumpstart your cerebral Cortex.... How can you do that?

Loneliness is an emotion being alone is a state of being. Which is your challenge ?

I think you are looking for perfection...the thing you describe as in waves means you are dealing with an emotional issue. Emotions ebb and flow.

 

I've been there dude, many times. And when it escalated- it even turned into phone and video calls. You're looking for the same dopamine high; seeking to 'finish' what you start. Your addiction is coming out in a different form. There's a thin line between sexting and watching porn. Delete the apps, contacts or maybe get a flip phone like you said.

 

During nofap you will seek alternates to porn, be careful about that.

 

looking for the NoFap little red alerts has turned into my addiction

 

@Mr. McMarty

For me .... it was the best healthy addiction.

I likened it to my tinder addiction...