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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Dutchy, May 27, 2019.

  1. Dutchy

    Dutchy Fapstronaut

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    Hi all,

    I'm a 47 year old guy from the Netherlands, and despite being happily married and having a satisfying sex life, I find myself addicted to watching and 'enjoying' porn. I have tried before to abstain from watching, but after a period of time, kept falling back. Apart from feeling guilty and dirty, I feel it creates a unpleasant haze and kills concentration and mental sharpness.
    I heard read good stories about nofap - so I hope it will help me to get back in balance!

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  2. Targaryenn

    Targaryenn Fapstronaut

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    Hello and welcome!!

    In my opinion, if you have a good sexual life, it will be easy to fight and overcome p and m.
     
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  3. Dutchy

    Dutchy Fapstronaut

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    Thanks. I am looking forward to you being right!
     
  4. bfdet

    bfdet Fapstronaut

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    If you haven't already done so, please read the "Getting Started Guide" available on this site's home page. It includes a lot of information that you will find helpful as you start your journey of healing. Also have a look at the "Glossary" on the top of this page for definitions of abbreviations and terms that may be new to you.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
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  5. Always be positive

    Always be positive Fapstronaut

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  6. Dutchy

    Dutchy Fapstronaut

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    So far so good - 11 days and counting. A couple of times felt the urge to watch porn, but could resist it luckily.
    The urge most often happened when I was bored with pointlessly playing with my phone - the time I used to open my browser and watch some porn...
    Need to find an alternative for that - what to do with the extra time :)