Hello Fapstronauts! I´m new here, chating from Brazil. I´ve finally realized i´m in trouble... my addiction has escalated to a point where i´m starting to throw myself into really dangerous situations... i´m so glad i´ve found this community just after i decided to do something about it. i signed up today, but i´m already 10 days without porn or masturbating... last sunday i had sex with my wife and it felt really good, so i´ve opted for the PM mode to start. I don´t want her to know I´ve enrolled in this program. Maybe I´ll tell her at some point. I hope this message finds you all good.
Hello from America! I too have fallen into this hole and am about at 20 years. I have told my fiancée about the community and the motive in conversation but never that I’ve had a problem. And I really think I’m about to tell her because in my eyes, that’s accountability. That’s telling someone you love and who loves you that you have a problem and you are strong enough to face it. And anyone who loves someone should be proud and supportive of that person for trying to improve right ? And yes brother. Sex is much better now and I’m only a few days in. But when you are literally indulging 2-3 times a day it doesn’t take long to get that sensation to start coming back.
Thanks for the message brother! You are right, I think I´ll end up telling her as well... thats surely the thing to do.
This is good start https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/watch-this-if-youre-struggling.232140/ Good luck