[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. 20/90 (in an hour)
    2/90 with no cigarette

    If you're paying attention, you'll notice that your urges will ebb and flow through the course of a month.

    What are you going to do during the time when you're urges are stronger?

    This game has 3 elements to it: willpower, mindset, and strategy.
     
  2. Getting_Free_From_Porn

    Getting_Free_From_Porn Fapstronaut

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    sorry guys relapsed but not to porn but to 50 shades. it popped up on youtube and there on I watched some romance similar to 50 shades videos but not to porn :(:(
    totally 111 days to 0 :(:(
    this contest from 58 to 0 :(:(
    but day 0/90 I will never give up and I have learnt some lessons
    but
    I need some advice I had not watched porn but sexual thoughts keep coming in mind continuously...any advice on getting rid of such thoughts will be appreciated...
     
  3. Struggler05

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  4. MarcoM

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    Unfortunately, i just relapse :( i couldn't control my thoughts today :( :(
    I will try again tomorrow, i can't give up, my life must to improve absolutely and i have to take control!
     
  5. zoroaster

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    Day 0 - will try for no PMO for 90 days
     
  6. Srisurya

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  7. AngeZarate10

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    i don't advice you to take ssri.
    make something, go to the gym, to run, ecc....
    if u take ssri, you should have real matters.
     
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  8. Marin333!

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    Day 3/90
    Slipped again, not a good week for me
    I've done it twice this week which means I'm getting comfortable and slipping back into the habit which is unacceptable for me, I won't allow myself to fall back into it
    I will rise from this starting today I will make tomorrow a better place and live my life free of this addiction
     
  9. Captain Anurag

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    Day 72
     
  10. Getting_Free_From_Porn

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  12. surfdude

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  13. Jacob974

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    Day 4 ! Maybe i did not quite get it. Is having sexual thoughts during the day a relapse? If you have images coming to you but stopping them asap would be ok? Thanks guys !!
    Have a great day
     
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  14. Any tips
     
  15. Of course it's not a relapse as you are human and are going to have sexual thoughts the rest of your life. Just try not to dwell on them too long unless you plan to ask her out on a date. Then giver! Hope that helps.
     
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  16. Day 28 of no PM
    Day 97 of no alcohol or caffeine
    Day 65 of weight training
    - I am doing well and feeling strong even though I know temptation is only a click away
    - lots to do today so I will keep this short
    - have a great fapfree day everyone
     
  17. Marin333!

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    Day 0/90
    Having problems sitting down because of my mess up this morning which sucks big time because I have nothing to do but write papers all day, feeling like a total loser right now -_-
    It sucks that I have to hit rock bottom again in order remind myself why I'm doing this in the first place but I guess that's part of being human is messing up and learning from it
    I'm doing this for my health, both for my body and mind in order to live a better life rather being a slave to my desires
    I've made tremendous progress these past 3 months(Totally could have met 90 days but I kinda messed that up back in April) so I have a bit of experience in this already
    I'm confident I can hit 90 days for real this time, looking forward to a summer free from this habit/addiction
    Have not been posting as frequently as I would like to but hopefully as soon as school lets out I can be here for your guys' support
    Pray for me brothers :emoji_pray:
     
  18. AlternativeFalcon01

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  19. RiseToGreatness

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    don´t watch those things. it´s like quitting cigarettes, if you want to quit smoking you shouldn´t watch Marlboro publicity and stuff!! whenever something pops up that has sexual conotation avoid it ASAP.

    a key aspect of a relapse happens much before the relapse, it happens when you allow yourself to indulge in sexual stimulation. when you say "ok, just a little bit...". that´s the beginning of the downfall. you got to stand your ground!! so when you say "no" to that stuff you´re giving a strong signal to the brain that you´ll not engage in those materials. you´re in a reboot. period.
     
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  20. RiseToGreatness

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    sorry to hear that bro, it´s a tough situation but hang in there. we´re with you. much love
     
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