Hi everyone. I am a 21 year old man, and today I have just created my account here. My story begins back in the 1st February of 2019 when I was ready to start my trip on NoFap and also no smoking. It's already almost 3 month that I didn't do it. It happend only couple of times when I was sleeping ( I think that doesn't count). So today I felt really horny suddenly ( but deep in my heart I know its from my internet activity) and I needed something to help me overcome it.. And I found this site. In fact because of the pain which accured in my stomach and lower part of stomach I didn't sleep all night... But now in the morning I feel ok, and thanks to God and this site, cause I have read many people's sharings. I am looking forward to achieve a state that I won't even think about this nightmarish staff. And however even now , after 3 months, when I talk with a girl I start to think and feel son nude staff, and I can even get an erection while talking to a girl, and also when I look at girls legs and butt and breast (by occasion) I can feel some nasty staff happening with me... And it is all from my stomach.. I guess I need advices from wise people here.
I guess all that is happening to you is natural. Maybe you objectify woman, that is, give too much importance to her appearance rather than personality. Interact with them at a deeper level, see them for what they are more than their flesh. If you try to connect at that level, fantasizing must reduce.
Phrygian, I do the same thing dude ( when it comes to looking at women). Its just something we have got to fight. And congrats on going 3 months! Praise God!! Keep up the good work. Something you might want to Check out to give you encouragement is a song by 116 called Temptation. I think you'll like it and find it helpful
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