So, I'm new here. Till three days ago, I've been accustomed to masturbating at least once a day on average from about age 12. I'm inspired by the personal stories that I've heard from so many who've done it and I'm excited about the changes that I will hopefully experience. But, honestly, I'm gonna miss jacking off. Whether I'm having sex on a regular basis or not, I've always jacked off because I love doing it. It's been my escape for many years, which I know isn't healthy. Anyway, I'll keep reading the forums for suggestions about how to deal with temptations. That's all for now.
I disagree. It is fine to miss MO as long as it's not tied to porn. Even missing porn is acceptable at the beginning of the challenge, although it does bring motivation a bit lower. Enjoying MO is not inherently wrong, and if you want to cut back, this is a perfect place to come. The challenge is just for you.
I started did enjoy it for a long time. Even used it to go to sleep. Used it to receive frustration. But soon it uses you and you no longer have control. What used to feel good becomes harder to get up to do. You then seek more and different ways. It is a downward fall. Start now brother. You may miss it but it is a good thing to miss in life.
Welcome Mattever! It is quite understandable to miss jacking off if you are just starting out. For many of us, it has become such a recurrent activity that we feel like it's an integral part of our lives. However if you can find the strength to abstain from masturbating, I'm sure you will find the benefits that come from abstaining far outweigh masturbating because you like it. I never expected I could free myself from masturbation. My focus has always been to cut out porn. However, by some fluke I can honestly say that cutting out masturbation from my life has been the best decision I ever made. The confidence, clear mind and sense of masculinity feel amazing, attributes I would not be capable of possessing if I was jacking off everyday. The truth is: you can do it too. You are certainly capable of it. Everyone is. I suggest setting an attainable goal for now, like 10 days. If you make that, try for 30 or even 90 days. The journey is not easy, but is so worth it in the end. "If it were easy everyone would do it". Good luck!
Thanks for the encouragement. I slipped once, so I'm starting the clock again. With staying away from the porn, I can already tell a difference in my attitude and thinking.
