Going NoFap to cure my believed PIED & Desensitisation.

22 Year straight old guy, been using porn since I was probably 14 almost daily.

Never really considered porn addiction or anything like that an issue, but as I got older the porn got more "diverse" (traps, trans, hentai, gang bangs, weird amateur shit etc).
To the point where I haven't used "normal" porn regularly for probably two years, when I do masturbate to something normal its almost like I'm proud of myself which I find ridiculous. I feel this has warped my view of sex and anything related to it.

I've always masturbated dry and upon discovering the term, realise that I did use death grip; always a tight grip and high speed. Firstly I'd like to stop watching porn and secondly stop masturbating as I believe it is causing a negative effect on my sex life at the moment.

Last few girls I've been with I have been able to maintain an erection fine during oral, little bit slow to actually get an erection during fore play, get like a semi. While I am able to maintain the erection, I am unable to cum, I have to finish myself off by jerking myself off quite fast as normal. During actual sex, feel very little and being unable to cum or just eventually going soft.

My plan is to essentially go as long as possible, for the foreseeable future will be having regular sex so I wont be completely devoid of orgasm and sex but hoping that with no death grip masturbation and just regular sexual experience will help bring back sensation and also help rewire me to a more natural view of sex as opposed to porn.

 

Thanks mate! Have never really tried going without it before, longest I got before signing up was like a week max, so will see how we go, having something to go to and at least check in and remind myself will definitely help!