Urge surfing

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Fappers Delight, Feb 15, 2019.

  1. Fappers Delight

    Fappers Delight Fapstronaut

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    So yesterday I had the urge big time to look at porn and act on it but I didn't and that for me is progress. I noticed the urge but rather than react to it I watched it to see what happens and what surprised me most is how quickly the thoughts and sensations came and went. I realise I can't stop thoughts or walk around with my eyes closed all day but I can control my actions.
     
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  2. Nuo

    Nuo Fapstronaut

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    Agree.

    Had strong urges today. I went and made sandwich instead.
     
  3. tatt2666

    tatt2666 Fapstronaut

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    Ah man I’m having some major urges .hope they pass
     
  4. Fappers Delight

    Fappers Delight Fapstronaut

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    They will, just see them for what they are - bodily sensations. Don't try to push the thoughts away but just let them come and go.
     
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  5. ThaaatGuy

    ThaaatGuy Fapstronaut

    Stay strong buddy!
     
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  6. tatt2666

    tatt2666 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the advice means a lot and ye that works I think