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New here - No erection for 2 weeks - scared

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Num5666, Jan 22, 2019.

  1. Num5666

    Num5666 New Fapstronaut

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    Just found about NoFap. Wish it was long ago.
    Was abusing myself with mastrubation. 5 time a day, in a row, for few weeks.
    Last time I mastrubated really hard. Penis barely stood, after few times in 10 mins. But I just kept trying hard until orgasm. Almost no sperm was seen.
    Since then, no erections at all.
    Can't make it stand. Not with porn, not with anything. Zero drive.
    Did i castrate myself? Can it be permanent damage? Is it even possible to cause such damage from
    abusive behavior as I described?
    I think I'm losing weight and getting depressed. Having hot flashes. May be panic attack, but I'm afraid it's due to teaticles stopped working. Will see doctor soon.
    Just want to ask - did anyone had such symptoms??
    I just want some hope.
    Promised to be a better man / human being if all goes well.
     
  2. CH3RRY

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    It won't be permanent. Just go on reboot and see what happens with your erections after some time.
     
  3. More Jing

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    5 times a day for weeks..wow that is some going buddy. I reckon all thats happened is its like your body had done the Tour de France,back to back with Ironman Triathlons every week for weeks.Imagine how exhausted you would be Your sex energy is exhausted. I guess your a young guy you will be fine ,but could take a few weeks good luck.
     
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  4. aniseprakash

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    I face almost a similar issue. The problem with me is that I don't get aroused that soon. Even while watching porn, it takes time. So I started rebooting, so far I haven't seen any changes in my erection. The thing is I haven't tried to get aroused in the past few days (Preciously 6 days). As far as the advice from my friends and a doctor, it will take a little over two weeks to see slightest of changes.
    So be patience bro, it will take a little time. It is not a permanent damage. According to reports 99% of male doesn't go infertile or go limb. So cheer up. Start rebooting and eat healthy food (Add Banana, greens, eggs, chick peas, dark chocolate, fishes and oyster). Try Kegel exercise as well.
    If you try rebooting with determined mind, you will succeed for sure. Don't give up even a bit. Think of the damage PMO has done, imagine the benefits you will yield if you succeed.
     
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  5. I've only just started getting erections again through thought/imgaination in the last day or so. Not many but they're there. It's taken 4 weeks to get to that and my starting point didn't seem to be as extreme as yours. Give it time, it will correct it's self. Your body hasn't magically gone the way it has over night, so it won't magically correct it's self again. Stay the path and you will get back what you want.
     
  6. Ajar

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    You don't want to get aroused at everything that passes. Stop worrying about how sensitive you are to getting a boner. The main goal is to cut down the level of sexual thoughts, and episodes so that you can function like a normal human being. This is a persistent problem I see with alot of nofappers. To be honest, just get your head out of your pants. Think about something else, do something else.
     
  7. Jerry120

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    I flatlined for about 70 plus days the first time. It's rough! But you can do it. I've been abstaining/slipping-up/resetting for over a year. I have still not received the rewards I want but someday, someday, I will get it....someday.
     
  8. Ajar

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    Use your flatline to your advantage. Its like natures natural mechanism. Utilize it!
     
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  9. Num5666

    Num5666 New Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys. Thanks for the responses. It really helps me. Gives me a little hope.
    Still no erections. 20 days already. Not at the day, not at the night. Can't make it stand. It lost the sense of "electricity" when being touched.
    I've been to a doctor. He says it's anxiety. I don't believe him.
    Asking again. Could I make a permanent damage? Last time was 5 mastrubation within 20 minutes. Last session was really hard, and it barely stood.
    I'm afraid that a damage was done to the tissues / nerves / testicles, and I'm losing precious time for fixing it. So scared :(.
     
  10. Retentionman

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    Agree
     
  11. Brown Sugar

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    Absolutely true!
     
  12. I was getting nothing at all, but when I hit the 4 week mark it started to change. In the last 4 days it's been like a rocket has been put under me. Today I woke with what a call proper morning wood. It will come for you, it just might take a bit of time, maybe longer than others. Also as people have said let it come natural, if you try and force it by force thinking about certain things you aren't going to naturally get turned on. It's like you are just replacing moving porn images on a screen with porn in your head. Stay strong and time will repay you.
     
  13. More Jing

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    Hello my friend , maybe a little Taoist sex stuff might get things moving and get some feeling back into your best friend..You will need an open mind. First of all a rub your hands together get them hot and just massage and tap your balls for a few minutes a day.....secondly get a beaker or cup of hot water dip your penis right in there to the pubic bone ..right in...obviously bearable not too hot!! that will bring yang energy into it. Now stand there close your eyes and breath in and out through nose.As you breathe in imagine energy going in through nose down into your penis. As you breath out imagine that energy in your penis expanding it as though it as pressing against the cup/beaker . Do that for 5 minutes a day minimum It will I am sure after a week or so start to get things moving again.Even after the first session it may feel more alive I imagine at the moment your penis feels dissconected from you like a piece of dead skin, lifeless . Do what I suggest and that will start to change Good Luck to you buddy
     
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  14. Itsmeagain

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    Enjoy the flatline, the break from all this. I binged for 8 hours a night for 2 weeks straight during the holidays. i was edging most of the time and my john even stopped getting hard...even when I took a blue pill....my mind was toast and i suffer from PIED ever since. Performance anxiety doesnt help, so if you are anxious your penis wont get hard, there is a good chance that its exactly what's gonna happen.

    Don't quote me on this, but when you wank too much, you need to take Zinc supplement to recover better. I also take vitamin b6, odorless garlic extract gelcaps, potassium, calcium, vitamin D and drink a lot of water. Now I get my morning wood back....you can eat a lot of bananas and celery stalks too the potassium in there does help.

    https://morningsteel.com/celery-and-erectile-dysfunction/

    Also,
    • Spinach
    • Beets
    • Carrots
    • Radishes
    • Collard greens
    All these help with blood flow.
    As a side note, I took some Nitric oxide supplement (gym supplement), but it gave me heart palpitations.

    Disclaimer: I'm not saying that relying on supplements and or foods is the way to go, but its certainly not wrong to help our body get better circulation by eating greens and bananas!
     
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  15. Ajar

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    Yea, I noticed the Vitamin D, Zinc, and Calcium. Or also ZMA helps as well to recover. One thing though, what I figured out. I went vegan for like 3 weeks. I've never had boners so damn powerful in my whole life. I feel like Veganism, or even just generally vegeterianism, it cleans out those vessels, and veins so well. Just a personal experiences there.

    I recommend staying away from the Taoist/Karezza stuff too much as well. For me it just ended up as an excuse to PMO. I be like oh well I'm building up sexual energy, but in reality all your doing is strengthening those nervous connections to expect sexual stimulation either externally or internally from your own mind. Every single time I did Karezza, I ended up relapsing. Not once did it help me get away from P, or M, or O.
     
  16. Itsmeagain

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    Ajar,
    Well said about the veggies in general...we eat too much processed food.
    For the Karezza, I tried to sell that to the wife last time I did a reboot and she didn't go for it. I bought a book, put a lot of faith in this and she declined...to me it was a way to get more sex....thanks for sharing the experience with it. I will not go there.

    Last night, I tried to have intercourse and It bombed...so, I'm looking at waiting another 15-20 days before another attempt to see if the re-wiring is working...I don't remember how long it took me to get rid of PIED last time...but about 45 days sounds about right for me...anyway, I had gobbed zinc, pinebark extract, vitamin D, B6, the whole thing...still didn't work.
    So, the performance anxiety takes its toll on me, even if I felt pretty calm...The wife understands, so its cool, although I'm not happy about that, but its not her fault. She is still going thru the motions the same way, so the whole sex event is scripted...there isnt much excitement there, and my addicted brain calls that VANILLA...
     
  17. Jerry120

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    Thank you for sharing your experience. I am happy to know that your wife is understanding and accommodating. With time and persistence you will make it.

    I can totally relate to the performance anxiety piece. I'm not even in a relationship and I'm concerned about how I will perform if I'm with a woman *eye roll*, so I can imagine your situation.

    Good luck and thank you once again for sharing!
     
  18. More Jing

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    Ive never been through this flatlining thingy so I dont know what its like but Im of an opinion if you dont use it you lose it....so in my mind it needs firing up......3 areas I reckon need adressing Nitric Oxide boosters ,PDE5 blockers and maybe DHT Hormone kickers helped naturally ........I would reccomend a good quality beet powder and raw cacoa powder plus at night a few grams of L citrulline with 150mg pine bark extract for the Nitric oxide...for the PDE5 blockers high quality horny goat weed with 50% icariin and black ginger capsules(get that from swansons),,,,creatine for the DHT.... just my 2p
     
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  19. Itsmeagain

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    @Jerry120,
    If I can give you a great piece of advice, it would be to please the lady first part of foreplay, so she gets "something" even before intercourse (send me a PM if you need details). We are males, we want to perform and we feel bashful when we don't. But trust me, there is women that cannot reach orgasms whatsoever. So, its important to seek a "compatible" sex partner/GF/Wife (before you marry her make sure that libido and compatibility are good for both).
    I mean if you suffer from perf anxiety and the woman, god bless her, take a good 20 minutes of intercourse to get somewhere, you might never be able to get there...I'm talking about extremes here, but the average man lasts from 2-10 minutes, unless one is particularly good or take meds that prevent him to ejac (some antidepressant do that as a side effect).

    My wife experienced depression and was mistreated in her youth. Also, she suffered from abuse in her previous relationship...so we take care of each other, this is why love and being in a couple may mean so much for people. The fact that I bombed again doesnt concern her too much, she knows i'm "sick".

    @More Jing ,

    To me, the flatlining is a brain thing. It feels like you get somehow bored and having side effects from dopamine starvation if that makes sense?
    When I told you that I popped 1/2 blue pill and couldn't get up....and usually that dose is more than enough for me to get a good result...my brain is fried lol.
     
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