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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by nutcase, Jan 18, 2019.

  1. nutcase

    nutcase Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone I’m new to this so please bear with me

    I have tried NoFap and constantly relapse for the past 2 years, like everyone else in I’ve been watching porn since secondary school so I’m kinda on similair level with some of you.

    Currently on 14

    Question
    when does flatline start?
    is it okay to go to a hooker?

    I would appreciate any feedback

    (Sorry if this has already been answered i just joined)
     
  2. ReclaimedLife

    ReclaimedLife Fapstronaut

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    Ok, how many dates did you have in that time? How much sex with regular girls?
     
  3. First of all brother I am congratulating you for your 14 days of success & I can see that you are curious about flatline & visiting hookers...I will try my best to answer these questions
    1.Flatline starts when our urges start to decrease & sometimes we start feeling like our penis aka dick isn't working but its the process of recovery & for some fellas it starts after day 22 & they highly notice the decrease in urges & for some it starts after day 25 or day 26
    2. About hookers_ I would say it will slow down the recovery process but your mind will start tricking you like _"ONE LAST TIME" but no man it isn't worth your betterself so I would say its better to avoid...
    Another main thing is that THIS THREAD BELONGS SOMEWHERE ELSE AS PER NOFAP RULES_ THIS SECTION IS ONLY TO POST SUCCESS STORIES
    ANYWAYS KEEP GOING STRONG MAN ;)
     
  4. nutcase

    nutcase Fapstronaut

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    So flatline is when urges for sex deacreases and our dick isn’t working??

    Can admin move this thread?
     
  5. nutcase

    nutcase Fapstronaut

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    I haven’t had any real dates in this time just escorts.
     
  6. Sounds to me like you have a ton of sexual energy you need to put somewhere. I get super angry when I don't have sex and when on NoFap. But hooker is just instant gratification. Have some standards man. Go socialize and be around women and it will happen. My friend is addicted to hookers he has been there like 20 times after he broke up with his girlfriend.
    FlatLine is good , your brain is rewiring. Your dick will always be fine, dont think about going to hooker to test, etc. It will always work like the ROCK.
    Take it easy :)
     
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  7. ReclaimedLife

    ReclaimedLife Fapstronaut

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    That is not "real" sex. Its a transaction that is doing the same as porn does. It gives you the easy way out on how to deal with the real issues.
    You need sit there with your emotions and see why you dont have any dates or relations with regular girl.
    What are the main factors that stop you from doing that? Address them and work them out first.
    Its going to be tough, but it is worth it because you will benefit from that for the rest of your life.

    Its very similar to me. I am currently in a "fuck or fight" mode. Where i am using the punching bag from our gym until my knuckles start to bleed. But i am going out as well, and i am asking girls out for a date if i do. At some point i'll find one that i like enough and will be able to seduce. It's like Dynamikos said, you have to get out and socialize.
    But where is disagree with is going out without adressing your own issues first.

    Start with getting rid of Porn and paid Sex and go from there. If you are like me and you are also not doing any O, you will start to move up the walls, but at the same time, you become way more inclined to talk to real girls.
    But i put in a shitload of work on learning how to talk to them and what i want from them as well, and because of that it is much easier for me now than it probably is for you

    Start with the 21 convention videos on youtube, if you want to learn about woman and how to behave around them.

    Listen to James Marshall, Rollo Tomassi and Socrates. And do that while you can actively listen.
    James gives practical advice on how to deal with and get woman,
    Rollo talls you HOW woman think and why the fk they do all of the shit they do and
    Socrates tells your how to become better as a person as a whole.
     
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  8. Rollo Tomassi made my friend cry once, the way he writes. Dont you think that the most red of the red pills out there is a little too negative for someone trying to quit porn? I mean if you just take everything that guy says in his book and think that way all the time you will end up jerking off to porn instead. Women are way more good than what he says.
    NOT SAYING HE IS WRONG THOUGH. Just a little bit... negative.
     
  9. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

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    No hookers. Have some self respect.
     
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