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No change for me

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Arthes, Dec 31, 2018.

  1. Arthes

    Arthes Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys :) its day 23 for me without PMO i dont feel much of a difference except the part that i am not feeling disgusted by myself every day.
    but i do not feel better yet i still feel "brain fog" and procrastinating alot tired all the time. and i my girlfriend is very respectfull and understanding. how "bad" will it be if i break the strike but only with making love to my girlfriend on new years eve ?
     
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  2. nerd_lean

    nerd_lean Fapstronaut

    It's fine I guess. As long as you dont get O from P or M.
     
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  3. TheBarbarian

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    Heh, if your girlfriend is down for it then go ahead. Just stop watching porn.

    I think a lot of the changes from nofap are psychological though. Like just 10 days ago I was anxious and insecure, but now I feel more manly and in control.
     
  4. phwrancesco

    phwrancesco Fapstronaut

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    23 days is too short for any benefit. I started having real benefits around day 80-90
     
  5. Amphibian

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    I sort of shrug when I see questions when the benefits of abstaining happen.

    Even a few days from abstaining from PMO I feel tremendously better about myself and in a better place mentally. I anticipate that it'll take me well over a year to get the "full benefits" I nonetheless still appreciate the changes already taking place, and I keep that as reminder of not going back to old habits.
     
  6. Arthes

    Arthes Fapstronaut

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    without P M O or just P M?
     
  7. Amphibian

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    By the way, I don't find that true. Actually around day 23-25 is when the fetish idealization wears off for me.

    Big changes and benefits come much later, but try to appreciate the little victories and accomplishments early on. They're there too.
     
  8. phwrancesco

    phwrancesco Fapstronaut

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    P M O is better but if you have chances of sex do it :)
     
  9. Arthes

    Arthes Fapstronaut

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    Thank you frog i do try to appreciate the little things. ill continue and i will ask.. i hope that appropriate.
    is doing oral sex and only oral sex considered M or O ?
     
  10. RollerCoaster

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    Not feeling disgusted by yourself is also a very postitive thing !
     
  11. Amphibian

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    Unless you're a gymnast or yoga instructor, then it's probably just O.
     
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  12. Arthes

    Arthes Fapstronaut

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    I don't understand why?
     
  13. Amphibian

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  14. RollerCoaster

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    He is talking about the impossibility to give yourself a blowjob, because you are thinking about oral sex as masturbation
     

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