When can I expect to have my first wet dream ?

I think it’s way too individual of a thing to even take a guess.

 

I don't think I've ever had one! I want to. So if we can figure out how many days of NoFap it takes to get one, I, too, would like to know, because that would become my new goal.

 

Meh. I've had a few during the last few years, even before starting my reboot, it's not fun. After I started my reboot I started getting them a lot, despite doing everything to not think PMO-related thoughts. They're quite depressing, so I wouldn't look forward. Count yourself lucky and move on (though I've heard in this thread if I'm not mistaken, that if you've never had a wet dream, then it'll happen after 2-3 months).

 

I don't think it's something you should want - it will make dealing with the situation harder. Subconsciously you are wanting it. If you are yearning for it to happen in your sleep it will become very easy for you to pursue it your waking state when desire becomes too strong. When your expectations are frustrated, what will your response be?

 

Your profile says you are 60 years old, I'm not sure if wet dreams still happen at such age. I'm 42, had my last orgasm 15 months ago, even if I have morning erections almost every night and vivid sex dreams sometimes I never had a wet dream during my abstinence. Actually I had a wet dream only once in my life, when I was a teenager.