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When will libido return

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Mibah.cm, Oct 26, 2018.

  1. Mibah.cm

    Mibah.cm Fapstronaut

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    I started my first long streak with 80 days out of frustration from pied. Somehow that relapse fixed pied. Have been going several weeks relapsing once a week. All of which were not to porn. I’ve cut porn out of my life completely. Being in a relationship when will my ducking drive come back I’m angry and depressed. Thanks
     
  2. NF4L

    NF4L Fapstronaut

    For me it took about 5-6 months after cutting out M to get some semblance of a natural drive back. It certainly isn’t always there, but I also am not consumed or controlled by a need to O either. You might want to focus on finding your reasons for anger and depression, though, as well as come up with a strategy for dealing with them in a healthy way. I will always say depression is a deep sadness without reason. If that is truly your case you may want to seek a professional for dealing with it. Otherwise, you may have to look inward to understand why you are sad and address those causes or reasons head on. PA is a behavioral addiction, and there is more to those addictive self-soothing behaviors than just excessive PMO. They become clearer and easier to recognize once the brain fog lifts from cutting out P, and practicing regular M. I wish you luck on the next stage of your journey.
     
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  3. Mibah.cm

    Mibah.cm Fapstronaut

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    Thanks, I'm not depressed and am perfectly happy with my life but after M'ing i feel very regretful and just not all there.
     
  4. Mibah.cm

    Mibah.cm Fapstronaut

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    So did it take 5-6 months without relapses? That gives me some hope, before my streak of relapses I went almost 3 months without relapsing or edging or viewing.
     
  5. NF4L

    NF4L Fapstronaut

    Yeah no relapses. I can’t say how much a relapse would put you behind, maybe a month or two. Also probably depends on if it was a reset, versus a full binge relapse. Everyone is certainly different.
     
  6. Younameit

    Younameit Fapstronaut

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    6 months at least to a year
    PAWS...
     

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