I think "flatlining" is too poorly defined to be of use as a term anymore...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Unhanded, Oct 2, 2018.

  1. Unhanded

    Unhanded Fapstronaut

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    Ask ten people what the symptoms, onset, and duration of flatlining are-or even what their experiences with it are-and you'll get ten different answers that are so all over the place that you'll wonder if they're even even talking about the same thing. I think it's time we come to a community-wide agreement as to what defines flatlining; It's causes, symptoms, general time of onset, and it's general duration. Right now it seems "flatlining" could mean so many different things that I prefer to not even use the term anymore. I am not asking what YOUR definition is; but rather how we can come to a community-wide, agreed-upon and more exacting definition of what it is. Thoughts?
     
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  2. Flatline to me just means low libido, zero sexual arousal & lifeless penis. All the other symptoms are just typical post acute withdrawal syndrome symptoms from drastic changes in the brain.
     
  3. Unhanded

    Unhanded Fapstronaut

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    K fair enough, thanks. How long would you say the withdrawls last?
     
  4. Depends on how severe your addiction was. It’s not unheard of for two year withdrawals. Which is a small price to pay in the long term considering many of us have watched porn daily for over ten years.
     
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  5. Ezpz

    Ezpz Fapstronaut

    We are all to different and lead different lives to have a universal definition, i think.

    There are so many factors that goes into quitting an addiction
     
  6. To me it only means zero interest in sex.

    For me it goes a couple days to a week. Then urges come back. Now instead of giving in to urges I’ll find something constructive to do and I’m soon back into a settled state.

    I really don’t want to be sexually aroused at this point. I want that to happen after I have a girlfriend.

    (It’s been 40 F-ing years. I’m actually tired of being sexually aroused. Maybe it sounds crazy to some, maybe to others it makes sense).
     
  7. Ifatfirstyoudont

    Ifatfirstyoudont Fapstronaut

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    Sound about right to me