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Help with anxiety

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Deleted Account, Oct 3, 2018.

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  1. Oct 3, 2018 #1
    Deleted Account

    Deleted Account Guest

    Hi guys

    Been on the website a couple of days now. I have disclosed things about myself here and it feels good but at the same time guilt shame and fear still keeps creeping up on me. I'm ok with not jerking off and avoiding porn. But every time I ask a girl out. I don't know if I'm doing it because I'm objectifying her or if I have genuine feelings. I always get anxiety when I have to make a decision about females in the real world. I like them but I don't feel any sexual desire for them which has proven to be very problematic. Deep inside I feel like sexual desire will rise when I finally find someone I love and who loves me. But again anxiety still creeps in. If anyone can give me perspective on this that would great.

    Thanks
     
    Deleted Account, Oct 3, 2018
    Deleted Account, Oct 3, 2018
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  2. Oct 4, 2018 #2
    geoff-89

    geoff-89 Fapstronaut

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    If you have courage to talk to girl you are one step above to recovery your anxiety.
    Just experiment to go-out with girl, if you have no sexual desire for girl, learn to know more about her and see if
    it's good to stay with her, no think about how good her body is. That's what i think and learn about me during my
    nofap challenge. What kind of girl do you want to date? (a girl who know you well or a pretty good body girl?).
    I have a extrême social anxiety when talk to a member of my familie is difficult or posting this message.
    I hope my message will be relevant. :)
     
    geoff-89, Oct 4, 2018
    geoff-89, Oct 4, 2018
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