I had sex

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Sunny Onward, Oct 1, 2018.

  1. Sunny Onward

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    hey guys how are you doing
    I am on day 170 and I feel awesome, but I had sex
    I wonder if I am back on day one
    I didn't shoot my goods we just had a moment n then stopped n went to sleep
    3 times I had this kinda sex, am I still going strong?
    I didn't feel any lost of energy body is still tinteling and I am still feeling good about myself only the question about sex is itching me

    let me know
    I am new here
     
  2. Welcome to the community. For many here the goal is to break the addiction to porn and masterbation and be able to have healthy meaningful relations. If that was your goal it sounds like you have succeeded.
     
  3. Sunny Onward

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    so I can continue my counting right?
    yes masterbation is done for me porn also, I am deleting all the porns web links I can find on my computers
    it feels great to walk tall and be able to look people in the eyes
     
  4. Your counter depends on the goals you have set for yourself.
    I'm married and we were going for no P or M. We only do things together and in this we have been successful and that is what I measure my own count against.
    I don't know what you were were aiming for when you started your journey. But for a couple you sound like you are doing great. As couple's we want to grow our intimacy and closeness and honesty. To be in a true relationship. If that's what you want and it is what you are both feeling, congratulations. Stay mindful and open and enjoy each other.
    Great work brother.
     
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  5. Sunny Onward

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    well I am single , and I am planning to stay for a while until I really find the woman I feel like I can be with and grow with , until then i am trying to get my spiritual state of being right, eat clean and exersise and help out where I can , I am also a artist my main thing for being single now is to be able to focus on my works and dealing with my inner demons
     
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  6. If you've had no porn or masturbation, you're good. Being able to have sex with people, not pixels, is what NoFap is about.
     
  7. Monsta

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    I had sex with my wife and decided to change from "hard mode" to "standard mode". You can change your goals as your life and relationships change. Just make sure you're not "pornifing" the event (when you imagine your favorite star or scene to help you come). And beware the "chaser effect" that comes after orgasm. Download and read Getting Started with NoFap to help you. Congratulations you're doing great and making healthy choices.
     
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  8. Uncomfortably Numb

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    The clue is in the title... PMO, PM, MO? Whatever the journey is for you? And the goal should always be a healthy sex life.
    Sounds like you are where you want to be
     
  9. Sunny Onward

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    thank you all, fam
    I feel super blessed to have overcome the porn n masturbation stuff
    I lost my last relationship because we both where into it, actually she got me into watching porn again I was straight for a minute before I met her, then I felt for the sauce
    our connection got weak n more frustrating so we called it a quit, I even saw her one day doing herself while I was on the computer so I guess she is going through it also, (I don't know if females can do fab or no fab) but ever since I moved out the house
    I was homeless for a while , leaving in a art studio while there sleeping on the floor and cold, I only kept my mind into spiritual books and making art, and making sure that I didn't fab , I even got myself into watching it just to be disgust by it,
    I have been on and off the masturbation thing through years, but this year I made the commitment to go for it and never look back
    so far for now I am in 170 something days and keeps on going strong, I cut off eating meat got myself into a sportschool and I am very thankful to be able to really feel great inside and outside

    and then I got all these girls now trying to talk to me, even older woman
    like hot hot woman are connecting with ya boy, its getting really fun
    but I am seeing it as a diamond we all gotta keep inside
    so I just promised to keep it until I would like to have a kid or so
    until then
    transmutation baby
    :emoji_full_moon_with_face:
     

  10. lots of semen preservation practices still allow sex without ejaculation. it depends on who you ask , but you should trust your experience and if you still feel strong, you should be able to trust your body by now and dont fall prey to the fear mongers .
     
  11. Ra's Al Ghul

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    Why did you have sex and not go to full orgasm with her? That seems so odd to me.
     
  12. SandsOfTime

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    It's really inspiring. I appricate.I have one question? You have mentioned that you last relationship. So with whom you did sex?
    Becareful don't go near any sextual act as we men unable to control ourself. A small thing is also enough to drag us somewhere else.
     
  13. The idea is to be able to do the right sexual acts.
     
  14. SandsOfTime

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    Yes, I agree.