Been dealing with PMO for ~15 years. I've been sick and tired of it for the last 10. I've had a reprieve about 8 years ago for about 2 months. When I got married several years ago it started coming back to once a day. Now my daughter is a few months old and I'm tired of being so selfish throwing time and attention away from my family. It has been a wedge in my relationship with my wife who has been very supportive. I have spent thousands on counseling years ago which has been very helpful but not led to stopping this madness. It years past time to take back my manhood and sexuality. My wife wants and deserves 100% of me, not a half-baked version. Theres no better time than now, 90 days lets go!
Thanks! Its Cloud Strife from FF7, one of my favorite games I played as a kid. Also the closest I've found to what I think the Revelation 19 Jesus looks like, everyone portrays him as some long-haired bearded dude who kinda comes off as a little wimpy. People forget that he is also the ULTIMATE WARRIOR fighting with us, Rev. 19 portrays him as the ultimate bada$Z on a horse about to go wreck evil for good. Who's to say he isn't sitting on a WHITE IRON HORSE?? Yea I'm a little out there, but hey maybe thats what it takes!
Hey man! Best thing to do is find whatever works for you and stick with it. As you are already aware, there are going to be many times during your progress were your mind will literally be going crazy for some PMO. Make sure you keep yourself motivated, dedicated and occupied with other activities which help take your mind off it! If you haven’t already, make sure to start a journal, it allows you to keep track of your progress and gives you the chance to receive advice from others. Also, if you really wanted to, you should give the Rebbot Camp course a go. I got the 90 version the other day and I can truly say that it helps. Anyways, wishing you all the best in your journey here. Good luck!
Thanks! where is this reboot course you speak of? I went to the 90 day challenge thread and posted there to start.
https://www.nofapacademy.com/ I costs a fair bit money but I’m not regretting it. I haven’t got really far in the course yet but I have already learnt so much. They have set it up really simple and easy to follow whilst still be set out in a really good progressive way. Meaning module 1 is just educating you about the course and teaches you about the science side of PMO. Then module 2 (I think) is about different techniques on how to control your urges and etc. There are a lot of modules in the course and each one of them are still relevant and greatly detailed. I really do recommend it, I only got the 90 day subscription which I think will be fine for me. I think you can download a free E-Book first, without subscribing, which is definitely worth a read. Give it a look man!
Yo bro, welcome to Nofap. I like to encourage new persons. Thats one of ways of countering PM. What laid the foundation for me was this book offered by Nofap. https://drive.google.com/file/d/1q9bsGCQjQMi6K825JnuU4l3Za9tkOLx2/view?usp=drivesdk I helps me train my mind. Even though i read the full book, i always visit it back, as i find myself slipping.
Thanks everyone! Just a quick question to throw out there, are cusswords discouraged here? I just have a feeling that I have a bunch pent up in my system once this really starts getting down the road. I would NEVER direct them or any hate at a person, just at the situation i'm dealing with. I apparently have a bunch of anger built up towards PMO that I haven't really noticed until now posting here and amping up to deal with this war face to face has brought it forth. Also having trouble locating forum rules/guidelines which is why I'm asking to begin with.
