I am extremely sad over something that happened last night.

Sounds like a russian mail order bride scam.

 

Your being catfished. The next email will be about sending money to save them all . MOVE ON FROM THE SCAMMER or if your bored and want to get some payback for there scamming act like your going to send it just to string them along.

 

Dude. You met her on a dating app. For all we know it is a fake account.

It isn't healthy to get that attached to a user you never dated on a dating app.

 

Wow. Who knows. Talk about internet friendships.

Not my bag baby. Are you saying you don't know if your friend on Snapchat is a fraud? Is this healthy to engage in such relations?

I guess I missed the Snapchat fever thankfully being older than those who got infected.

 

It can be good to talk these things out with others and get input. My input is that we today are taking "internet friendships" too seriously. If you were to meet this woman face to face and truly connect in a healthy way, that's one thing.

But IMO, shouldn't give your heart away over an internet connection where there's low commitment and it's easy to deceive others. Don't give your heart away until you're sure there's full commitment on her part. And you can't get that assurance with just communication over the internet. There has to be real life situations that you both go through together where you see that's she's committed to you and she sees that you're committed to her.

 

What do you mean by "leaving everything behind"? According to your profile, you're 19, just starting out in life. All you need to leave behind is her, or the needs that you hope to have met by her. May be somebody else might be able to deal with her illness, but judging from your reaction it seems like you wouldn't even be able to love her that way, right? I agree with the other users. that it is too early to feel that way about someone you haven't even met in real life. Take this as a lesson in online dating, or in your own needs. That's all.

 

Let's get back to the issue at hand here- no PMO.

Nobody can help you with this issue, sorry. I recommend you post things like this in a journal.

We can't give advice because we don't know of she exists. A facebook account is as real as a snapchat account.
We can't help you, because this goes beyond the realm of advice and comfort.

But i get it- you want to vent That's okay. And it's not off-topic. It goes in a journal. Start one

 

Hi,

You sound like a really great person who cares a lot for other people! Thats good. But there are a lot of bad shit happening in this world, and we can't do anything about it. We have to keep moving forward no matter how much bad shit happens.

I don't know if it is real or not, but if it EVER gets to the point where she asks for money (or support in that way) - DO NOT GIVE HER. I know you want to help, but then I am sure it is a scam.

Also I have seen other people find scams like this. Scams can be very well put together with facebook pages included. Be careful, and don't get to attached to someone you have only met trough the internet. The person can be a lot different in real life. Maybe she is going trough shit in her life and have those problems - but she can still be a whole different in real life in other ways.

 

It’s not hard to create a fake Facebook account. But you need to worry about your own health and happiness first and foremost, and if that means getting a new start, then take it. Quit being held hostage by how others would feel if they’re not being abused by your actions.

 

If you really want to prove she is real, ask her to send you a selfie with your name written on a piece of paper, or any other message that she wouldn't be able to photo shop

 

In any of your communications with her has she happened to mention the name of this deadly disease? I would think that would be an important detail. What reason would there be not to?

 

its called shameless GREED