How to stop masturbation when you have a huge sex drive but you want to be single?

...or you simply accept that there are people who don't want a relationship and don't want to masturbate, too. Despite of having a sex drive and despite of finding it not easy to accomplish.

 

Please date someone and have sex instead. Masturbation is a killer of happiness. It will destroy you completely.
Date someone and have sex instead.

 

Well i can understand ur condition.There is so much great things to do instead of xxx and M.Just focus on the main priority in ur life.Then u will feel Good...

 

Date someone Eleanor, give someone a chance I have learnt the hard way that PMO is worse than even sleeping around. I have elevated Blood pressure now cos I was always nutting in the night instead of sleeping. My life is now at Rock bottom and I have a weaker mind, weaker heart, and weaker body. Masturbation will find ways to destridyou eventually. The more you do it, the more your sex drive is up. Eventually your sex drive will only be sex drive for masturbation and sex wouldn't be attractive like it used to be. Please have sex instead.

 

Date someone, having urges is natural. IMO, staying single only to rely on PMO and then trying to fight it is a waste of time imo. Find someone you love and have sex, ditch the PMO.

 

I'd like to give some tips from another perspective than the resent posts which were encouraging to have a relationship. If you really are absolutely committed to quit, then you will find a way eventually and i think that going into relationship basically to satisfy urges isn't a good idea. Dating also takes a lot of time, and to find a proper partner one must know themselves before. Being out of relationship might give time to do some introspective analyzing. Anyway, you have to make your own decisions. This is just something to consider among other tips.

I used to be a slave to anything sexual, and i wanted sexual satisfaction around the clock. I think i have now found something that will get me a long way in my attempt to quit PMO. I think you too can find something within, which will help you on your trials.

 

I agree with @Haircomb relationships can't just be based on sex. You don't need to repress your sex drive just learn to put it on sleep mode by ignoring it and finding ways to work on other things that interest you and bring you fulfillment. I also think I have a high sex drive but I'm not going to let it control me anymore. I'm putting my puppy to sleep for a while until a hottie that's worth my time comes around then he can awaken my wild side. I'm done with MO it became a tyrant that was never satisfied.

 

I believe the more you abstain from Porn and things related to sex the less you crave them. You start focusing on other things in your life.

 

If you have a high sex drive, why do you want to be single? The options for your sex drive are have sex, masturbate, or just live with it. The hard part is learning to live with it. I'm on hard mode because I'm not in a relationship, but personally I would rather have a committed relationship than be single. Relationships provide more than just sex, such as companionship, comfort, and encouragement.

 

Agree with this 100%

 

Truly said

 

That's a good reason. It sounds like you have some good self-awareness and maturity, so I'm sure you'll do great. Just don't "work on yourself" too much for too long and let life pass you by, as no one is perfect, and no one can be perfect.

 

I feel the same exact way and it’s a struggle but I’ve ignored all my own problems in pursuit of lust and thinking having someone love me would make my problems go away but that’s far from the truth.I’m dedicated to fixing my own problems and improving my situation so I can be the best version of myself. Occasionally people will tell you what are you doing with your life you should have a partner by now or have this job but you have to realize some are doing it out of love and others are just miserable and critical of their own lives. However we need to keep going because we know deep in our hearts what is best for us and NoFap helps us gain that self awareness

 

I find that having much fraternal relationships with women has worked... probably not enough but it has made a difference. this might be more difficult to you since you are a woman, but perhaps you can sublimate the sexual desire into something like friendship, fraternal love, motherly love?

I don't know. sorry for the stupid comment.