Although the desire doesn't seem as overpowering as last week, I'm starting to experience regular urges for sex, and it's stressing me out. You'd think it would be easy to allocate all my energy and attention into a productive activity, but sexual thoughts creep into my conscious like an unwelcomed parasite, and I feel a rush of anxiety for not satisfying this craving by watching pornography and relieving myself. Is anyone else undergoing these seemingly insuppressible feelings or thoughts?
Hey @rush limbaugh, Thank God this forum exists on nofap, I did not know sex addiction could be discussed here too until recently. You are not alone brother! I'm on my 3rd week of recovery from porn and I am LOSING MY MIND -- but not from porn, from WANTING SEX. At least right now in this moment, I am level headed and can actually write this post right now. For me, I am having the WORST time keeping myself from going to these massage parlors near me where prostitution services are done. I have been coming pretty close to actually going but the cons outweighing the pros have been helping me to not go. Yesterday I spent 1 to 2 hours straight, just looking online enticing myself to the possibility of sex with these prostitutes, making plans to go at night; I did not go yesterday. It is so strange, it is almost like my porn addiction has completely changed to a prologue of a sex addiction. I DONT WANT TO START THIS! Tell me brother, what is your situation exactly? Are you just looking at someone and thoughts of sexual fantasy flood your mind? Or something else?
I've been close to going down that route before too. You're not alone there. Basically, I check girls out while driving, grocery shopping, etc. which immediately induces inner sexual thoughts. I just want pussy, but the reason for wanting to get away from these desires and pornography is for my girlfriend. I really love the girl, and I want this out of my life for the sake of our relationship. It has corrupted my mind since I was a child, and I'm 24 years old, ten years too old for these irrepressible thoughts.
If you have been away from all three, PMO for a time your mind is going to try everything it can to get what it wants. This high desire and powerful urges are normal at times.
That sounds like a great reason! Let that girl know how much you love her everyday. And remind yourself everyday that sex with any other girl is unacceptable!
Thanks, brother, I hope you are able to abstain. I almost gave in a few minutes ago, but by the grace of God, I restrained myself.
I have these feelings, but they are attached to a memory of a porn I once saw. I know her name, I know the scene, I know the keywords to find it. I fight it for 2 days and it fades, only to be replaced by another. Frustrating.
Im having strong urges. I desseperatly want to fap and watch porn. My gf is working so i cant have sex. I started to clean my place. The watch some youtube video that explains the effect of porn in the brain. I also thought about going out of the house, to change location. Also im feeling the urge to drink, to calm down, but i dont like using alcohol as medicine. Its like my boyd is asking for gratification.
Don't do it!! You have a GF, I DONT LOL. Wait for her to get off of work then you can BANG HER TO NEPTUNE AND BACK Hang in there brother!