In for this Month. Hard Mode. No PMO. The no-sex part is going to be tough but will cross that bridge when i get to it!
I’m in, I stopped watching porn and masturbation since July 29th. Hopefully I can complete a free 30 days, then continue to the 90 days challenge.
everyday some of us wake up get a new day to live...nd the first challange is to fight with ownself, because no matter what we say, mind is us, atleast until we r alive. being alive is in itself a chance and what comes after this chance is the choices. looking back in life i can see today that i’m nothing but the end product of my choices or burdened under the choices i made which i consciously didn’t meant to make and i’m sure i can only break free from under this burden with a pile of meaningful productive choices that i’m trying to make from now on. wishing you all a powerful energetic life Thank you all Thank you universe.
Hows everyone holding up? Having a stressful day today and really struggling, but this is where it matters the most. Its easy when things are going well. This forum has been a huge help i have to say. Hope everyone is staying strong!
I'm in. I'm committing to no pornography, objectification of women, or self-stimulation of any kind for the rest of August. I can't stop wet dreams, nor do I care to. I *can* stop myself from stealing glances at scantily-clad women, which for me seems like sort of a gateway drug to porn. I'm doing this because I want a healthy sex life with a woman, and I don't want to pervert my sexual desires any further by going down any more rabbit holes. They lead nowhere good. As an ancillary reason, I'm doing it because I don't want to contribute any further to a system that is by and large exploitative of young women, and harmful to the stability of real relationships.
12 days in now. Really difficult when I am alone in the house as I am now. Helps to come on this site and boost my resolve. Extraordinary how that voice in my head works away trying to persuade me to give in to my longings. However I take pleasure in the good feelings later when I resist the urges and they subside a little. Hopefully the good feelings will grow stronger and my desires will diminish. Feel better around my wife now. Less guilty and ashamed of my weakness. Who would have thought I would have come to this sorry state!
Hello I am already doing it from August 1st and will do my best to get it for 3 month strait and further to full rewire. Main reason for me finally getting started is a girl and me understanding how shallow the porn is in comparison to real thing. Plus got fed up with all the negative porn brings along with it.(brain fog, low energy, etc). While briefly dating her i enjoyed it so much i mean real emotions, flirting (you know all the good stuf) got her to bed but than ED i suppose PIED. Next time with next girl i want to be able to perform normally plus as mentioned real thing is THE THING!!
I am now 9 days in but I am getting the urge to buss a nut right now, porn is all that is in my mind right now, somebody help
Go for a walk, take a cold shower after that. this urges will go away but then come back. But M its not what you want. Try to think about what you really want why you quiting porn for? health ? Real women? am i right?