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New user, here because of my girlfriend.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by remyvc, Jul 29, 2018.

  1. remyvc

    remyvc Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone,
    I'm here because I have a long lasting relationship with my girlfriend, and after all these years, I still struggle with PIED from time to time.
    Last time we had intercourse she actually cried, saying she wasn't attractive enough because she could feel my erection fading away while having intercourse.
    Ofcourse that's not true, I'm actually very lucky to have a girl as attractive as her.

    I tried to explain to her that what she was saying was utter bullsh*t, and that it wasn't her fault, but she had a hard time understanding me, and I can't blame her...
    She also gently pointed out that I never came inside her once during all these years, and that she was afraid of not being able to get children in the future.

    Afraid that I might lose her if this keeps going on for a couple more years, and feeling horrible that my bad habits made her burst out in tears during sex, I'm here with a mission. Quit porn and masturbation forever, starting with the 30-day challenge as of today. Thanks for reading, and keep on no-fapping!

    Edit: she doesn't know I'm doing this, in case you're wondering.
     
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  2. c0ldt0uch

    c0ldt0uch Fapstronaut

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    That is a very good reason to start this journey. I just can recommend to read a bit through the Treads so you get familiar with problems you could encounter during your time. And dont forget: Even after a relapse, keep going! They are part of the reboot.

    Best of luck for you and your gf :)
     
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  3. remyvc

    remyvc Fapstronaut

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    I'm reading the 44 page long getting-started-guide, very interesting and helpfull read so far!
    Thanks for the encouragement, I'll keep your advice in mind if I relapse.
     
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  4. STAR DUST

    STAR DUST Fapstronaut

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    Make sure you are financially prepared to have children and married. Be honest with her and show her the your brain on porn. At this point if you lose her that is what you deserve. Get it together. You know how to fix this. If you don’t your whole life will be forever ruined
    Good luck!
     
  5. remyvc

    remyvc Fapstronaut

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    You're right about potentially losing her, and that's my main motivation.
    I'm ready!
    Thank you
     
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  6. ImproveMyLife

    ImproveMyLife Fapstronaut

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    You will lose her if you don't stop. It's more than just the sex that porn effects.
    I wish you luck man. Don't lose 7 years like i did!
     
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  7. STAR DUST

    STAR DUST Fapstronaut

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    You have a lot to lose. Would you rather lose yourself your success and the one you love or simply lose the porn. There is a tiger chasing you. You must get away from it. Nofap is your place of safety. Trust me trust me trust me. We are in this together.
    ou
     
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  8. Jason_Tesla_19

    Jason_Tesla_19 Fapstronaut

    Hello and welcome! Good luck with your reboot!
     
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  9. dboy18

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    Thanks for your post it helped me.
     
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  10. remyvc

    remyvc Fapstronaut

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    Thanks everyone for the encouragement.
    @ImproveMyLife man, 7 years... PM is an absolute beast. I'm close to 5 now.
    @dboy18 glad I could help!
     

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