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Getting a gf

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Llywelyn App Grufudd, Jun 18, 2018.

  1. Jun 18, 2018 #1
    Llywelyn App Grufudd

    Llywelyn App Grufudd Fapstronaut

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    Right, i’ve been trying to get a girlfriend and to some extent i still do now. One of the reasons i embarked on Nofap was to help me with this. No i do not want sex and i do not view women as sexual objects. Porn has never been that much of an issue for me, only watching it from time to time ( and i sure as hell wont do that again after reading some content posted here) as for sex, well niether is that one of the driving factors here. I want a woman who can make me feel safe and secure and be affectionate to me ( no not the sexual sort, the clean hug sort ). I am hoping that through Nofap i will change in such a way that i will attract adequate partners, nevertheless i am committed to a major change here. Feel free to leave your opinion on this.
     
    Llywelyn App Grufudd, Jun 18, 2018
    Llywelyn App Grufudd, Jun 18, 2018
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  2. Jun 19, 2018 #2
    drac16

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    Good to hear. If you abstain from PMO, that will probably make you more attractive to girls. Girls, from my understanding, don't like it when their boyfriend views pornography-- they get jealous. I hope that you find your soul mate. :)
     
    drac16, Jun 19, 2018
    drac16, Jun 19, 2018
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  3. Jun 19, 2018 #3
    Headspace

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    Keep your eyes open and don't hesitate to talk to a woman you feel you really like and potentially fit together with. If you want to meet her again, make sure to not leave it to coincidence, but get her phone number, online account or something. Show your interest and ask her if she has a boyfriend as soon as possible - be sincere and avoid playing games.
     
    Headspace, Jun 19, 2018
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  4. Jun 19, 2018 #4
    Llywelyn App Grufudd

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    I will keep this in mind after my 3 months from abstaining.
     
    Llywelyn App Grufudd, Jun 19, 2018
    Llywelyn App Grufudd, Jun 19, 2018
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