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I miss porn...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ghost79, May 31, 2018.

  1. Ghost79

    Ghost79 Fapstronaut

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    I'm stressed, feel lonely and sad and have the urge to look at beautiful hot and naked women to ease my pain.
    Is it okay to watch porn only for 5 minutes if I'm sure I won't fap?
     
  2. I'm sorry you feel bad. Perhaps you could go for a walk or something? That always helps me. Other ideas might be listen to music or a podcast while doing housework, have a shower, or do a big combo, e.g. have a healthy snack, a coffee, listen to something, then go for a walk while sipping the coffee (I've done this a few times lol).

    Watching porn for 5 minutes would be a form of "edging" and will damage your reboot. You could even have a P.O. - an orgasm without any "M". That's happened to me a couple of times.

    Good luck, hang in there!
     
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  3. SelfControlIsTheGoal

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    No its not ok in the scene its bad for you and ill bet my house you'll relapse, don't give in!
     
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  4. You could also learn from my last relapse. My mind was saying, "oh just look at that one specific P-sub image for a sec".

    Well, that led to a PMO.
     
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  5. Mister Fire

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    No, it’s not.Man the fuck up and do NoFap, period.
     
  6. Trust me, it's not a good idea. Last time i've relapse it's because i said exactly the same thing.
     
  7. Mister Fire

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    Same thing happened to me MANY times.Everytime I’ve relapsed I was bullshiting myself with that kind of reasoning, just EVERY fucking time !! A new bullshit excuse ALWAYS lead to me jacking off and losing my life force energy.It’s either NoFap or PMO, perdiod.
     
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  8. John Lee Smith

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    We all miss porn, we all need women and we all love to watch naked women.
    But you gotta choose, either girls with beautiful bodies or either porn recovery.
     
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  9. PMO addict

    PMO addict Fapstronaut

    Hi Hawx. I know what you mean. I am dealing with rejection and people not being there for me when I need them, in addition to other things. It is not a lot of fun. The main reason I keep reminding myself why I want to stay clean is my dream recall. If I relapse, my dream recall will go down the crapper again and I will wish I had it back. Other than that, yeah. I really want to see some women on the screen and feel those sensations. But I know that for me there is no such thing as "just one". If I take one look, I could go to a full blown relapse. Its not like I could do 5 minutes of edging to P, and then stop again, and just have that much relief, and then get back to my life. once I pick up, there's no choice, because I will have activated the neural path-ways of the addiction.
     
  10. Mister Fire

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    I don’t miss porn at all.PMO is the fucking enemy.PMO ruined my life, why would I miss the thing that ruined my life ? You should get to that point dude ‘cause as soon as you have something within you that tells you that you miss porn, the relapse is already on it’s way to fuck you again ! Be in Love with NoFap ! It’s your best life possible !
     
  11. dev1001

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    There's really no difference between edging for 5 minutes or edging for 30 minutes. Edging does not reboot your brain in the right way, atleast from my experience, and will eventually result in a relapse.

    You have to resist, resist, resist the urge to look at nude pics of women. Only then will you build true mental strength and will start to value and respect real women better.
     
  12. Julius93

    Julius93 Fapstronaut

    "Five" minutes haha
     
  13. JSCHINA

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    I agree with most people here. I decided to quit PMO because there's really not a limit-one more leads to five more, and five more times leads to a hundred more times. I honestly do not think that anyone can watch porn for 5 minutes and then head back to NOFAP with a clear mindset. When faced with temptation, you should try to tell yourself that you are not your temptation, and you won't listen to what temptation says to you.
     

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