Since I last MO, I went almost nuts because I stopped hardcore porn, meeting men, and paying for worn panties..and O many times a day. Last week I stated sex with my wife. I O'd prematurely...before I entered her. This happened but I was able to become hard with a cock ring. After some hard work I was able to O while inside her. It was about 2 years since we last had sex. Still struggle with taboo fantasizing about stuff that happened when I was young. My wife allows me to act out my fantasy to get hard for sex. Is that ok to do wife my wife?
When your body is a 100% with your wife .... your mind should be a 100% with your wife. You can get better.
#1 she is your wife, what business is it of ours what the 2 of you do in your private life. #2 the term "she allows me" is kind of an indicator of problems. In an equal an intimate relationship one partner shouldn't hold keys over the other. If you two want to explore sexual behaviors do it together out of love and trust, not out of tolerence, admittance and lust. #3 FANTASY. Entertaining fantasies for your own self endulgence is mental masturbation. It is just as harmful to the mind. Sure you may be using her body, but to your rebooting brain it is no different. What is awry in your life that you are compelled to satisfy those fantastic scenerios? #4 what about your wife? How does she even feel? As we do everything we can to respectfully put each other's needs ahead of our own we find that is when we are actually fulfilled. Sex often shouldn't be "what's in it for me? But rather "how can I make her feel sensual and loved? Good luck. It's your marriage. Talk it over with her, you will have better results than listening to us yoohoos on the interwebs.
Yeah, I agree about her "allowing" me to engage in fantasies that we both know are taboo. I'm not sure if fetish play that deals with taboo subjects is normal play for adults or we're trying to heighten the chemical release like viewing P down. Unfortunately, I believe that she engages in taboo talk when she wants me to O very quickly so everyone can go to bed. Ugh.
What @Reverent may mean is that _within_ the confines of wedlock there are _all kinds of_ legitimate ways for spouses to satisfy each other sexually in ways that other spouses, who have their own ways of achieving intimacy and faithfulness, do not. Sounds like your wife is generously incorporating the reality of your "broad" fantasies into your love life. Unless one spouse is consciously damaging the other, there is no room for guilt or even second guessing; there is room for love and intimacy. What other couples do it their bizz, what you do is yours. If that's what @Reverent meant, I fully concur.
Do you feel drained after sex? I am still a virgin , so trynna figure out whether i should get married in future or keep pushing myself forward? Like ya know , I might even build an empire if I never waste my inner strength.
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