No PMO until April 4th 2015, my wedding day? Can I do it?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by MadManMorris, Nov 12, 2014.

  1. MadManMorris

    MadManMorris Fapstronaut

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    I'm a 36-year-old guy that lives with is 34-year-old girlfriend. We have been living together for about or year now. We have had sex but are waiting until our wedding day to have sex again it's been five months since we have had sex. We love God and His presence in our relationship. I have been NoFap for five days now. I've had a problem with porn since I was 12. I've been PMO for five days. Can I make it all the way to my wedding day in April next year? So far it has been quite interesting...I am more productive and busy. My girlfriend seems to enjoy making it har...more difficult. But she supports me.
     
  2. tombrooks

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    I say go for it! That is a great goal and you are doing for a great reason! If you need any help whatsoever feel free to ask.
     
  3. It looks like April 4th will be a great day for both of us. It's my birthday. I'm wishing you the best and I hope you two have a successful marriage. She must be the love of your life. It must feel great to be in love.
     
  4. KoalaDude

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    You lucky guy!

    Persevere with all your strength and all your heart!
     
  5. TeddyBear

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    I have faith in you ... and if you make it to the 4th, you will feel immensely accomplished. It's a really great goal you have, so persevere and keep the faith and you'll reach your goal.
     
  6. MadManMorris

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    Thanks! This morning was interesting as usual...
     
  7. MadManMorris

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    Well I'm on Day Six...interesting how it seems to have affected my digestion. In a negative capacity. This is going to sound really weird but I had a psychosomatic addiction to fapping that I think helped facilitate comfortable digestion. Boom. I just said that.
    I can't figure out hot to reply to individual posts. Thank you for the encouragement! April 3rd is my bday...140 odd days...so far I am loving the challenge. I feel more energy and have more time. Not that it took that long to fap, it's the energy going to something lasting. Like adding a page to my website. So that was concrete proof to me off a payoff from NoPMO...evidence.
     
    Last edited: Nov 13, 2014
  8. TeddyBear

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    That's good. Keep at it! Yeah ... once you stop PMO, you'll realize there might be some really odd behaviors or feelings tied to your PMO. That's how the brain works. It's a vastly complex mass of neuroplasticity and it isn't until we start trying to rewire it that we begin seeing just how our habits effect us. This is not just a journey of willpower, but it's also one of self-discovery.
     
  9. MadManMorris

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    Sweet!!! Day 21 reached!!!! Ok, how are you guys putting the stats and stuff under your posts? Noob here sorry.