Day 24. I have been walking with confidence and doing things with confidence and from a place of authenticity, which has helped me with my everyday goals. It has helped me nail everything from job interviews to random social interactions that I wouldn't have nailed before. I am on track to becoming the man I want to be, and in a way, I already am the man I want to be. I am happy, I am on track, I stand up for myself and I ooze honesty, which in turn has also made me less anxious, less nervous and less inclined to hide away in my house or in the corner of a bar. I wake up feeling energized, and I go to bed feeling energized. I take cold showers to boost my immune system and to in the morning, automatically get out of my comfort zone, so that in turn the rest of the day seems easy. And it has shown. The facebook event page for my next show has reached 10,000 people because I don't believe in procrastination any more. To put that into perspective, it usually reaches around 2,000 people. I apply for 20 jobs a day instead of the usual 1. I go for 10 walks a day. I achieve 30-40 written goals per day, and I never feel tired. When my mindset started to shift, my body did too. I have lost 10kgs in 23 DAYS because of my constant walks, bursts of energy and my willingness to better other aspects of my life. My skin is brighter, my voice deeper. My smile looks real. My energy levels are off the charts. What charts? THE charts! Life is fantastic, and if I feel this powerful as a man and as a human who wants to make a difference in the world now, then I can only imagine how I will be in a years time, or when I'm 30, or when I'm 60. All this, after 24 days. GUYS. KEEP. GOING. You might not reach this is 24 days like me, but at some point you will reach this. And this alone is worth the simplicity of not jacking off to porn.
Thank you for sharing your success. It's good that you realise that you already are the man you want to be, you just kept him beaten unconscious in the trunk for a while. We won't all get what you've gotten at 24 days, but you show us what can be done when we apply ourselves. Keep crushing it.
H Hey mate. To answer your questions, by brighter skin I mean visibly shinier skin, as if I'd been constantly moisturising. I realized my voice had gotten deeper by someone mentioning it, as well as me being able to hear and feel a lot more bass in my voice when I spoke. My beard didn't necessarily get thicker, but my facial hair has always grown in patches, and I am seeing it starting to grow fuller, if that makes sense.
Very aware, and very considerate to the fact that tough times are ahead. Ready to nail it, my friend!
Wow, awesome you have changed and gained a lot within in a short period of.time { 24 days }. That's unimaginable for me. keep going. keep pushing. thanks for sharing your story. inspires us a lot!!!!
Excellent Questions. I believe that my focus on killing all my goals has had a drastic impact on my confidence within this nofap experience. If you try to give up fapping and porn without having a clear focus for bettering yourself as a human (aka, if you aren't striving for anything, if you aren't trying to get better as a human, if you aren't hustling) then the results wont be as palpable. I say this because of the fact that I have always been someone who said they were going to reach their goals, but half assed them. Nofap has (subconsciously) allowed me to reach my absolute full potential in that respect. That is to say; Have goals - Abstain from masturbation and porn - ACHIEVE goals. I have a list of 8 areas of my life that I wish to improve. I work everyday, bits and pieces, on ach of those goals. Before nofap, I achieved them, but not to my full potential. On nofap, I am 100%. Every day. I am, day by day, bettering myself in all 8 aspects of my life that I wish to better myself at. Nofap has contributed to the drive that I never had, but now understand I do. It's amazing.
Nah brother, I have goals relating to improving in 8 different area of my life (aka, finding employment, self development, habits and routines, etc) Every day, I do at least one thing relating to each 8 goals.
Nice one. Hope you find a good job : ) 10 walks a day? Why not just do one long walk? I find I cannot feel the benefits physically in my body and brain unless I do a minimum of about 45 mins.
Well I mean, how can you achieve 30-40 written goals a day? That must be very very small and simple goals?
No idea to be honest. That being said, It is quite a nice confidence boost going for so many mini walks to, throughout the day, test out the whole attraction thing haha.