Easy mode No P success

Cool man. I'm doing easy mode after failing hard mode every time after 6 days. I can fap but not look at porn. I'm on day 14 right now

 

Thank you for this. I agree orgasm and masturbation is not the problem... porn is the problem. I think masturbation is a real healthy part of sexuality. Limiting M to a couple times a week is good because you can still enjoy a lot of the benefits of increased energy and saving your nut. Plus you can fantasize about girls you've been with or your chasing... this is so healthy. I've committed to 30 days hardmode... but am deciding on what to do after. I definitely want to chase girls but probably will also go back to limited M and O

Thanks for discussing what worked for you!

 

I want to go through semen retention later this year but I want to go through the summer porn free first to have that confidence in myself

 

Congrats man!! Completely agree with everything you have said here!! Time for me to start again after another failed attempt but I know I will get there eventually!

 

Nicely done! I have to say this is so true...! My actual relapse shows how true this is... Had the experience of this, Porn is the 1 Problem!! I just watched P beginning of the week without touching myself and it destroyed all (!!) my good energy, psyche & physically! While the weeks before I had powers in creativity and sports, even if I didnt release my balls I was tired and unmotivated the whole week, just thinking bout sex....
had strange feelings in balls & stomach... walked around like a hurt & hunted deer... yesterday I M'd without P because of all that strangeness and funnily I feel a lot better again now.... Feel I can start fresh & natural again...
so better jerk off in joy 3 times a week than jerk off on porn 1s a month!!!

 

And you think using your imagination is healthy?

 

Just my two cents: Abstaining from masturbation has several benefits. Here are a few off the top of my head in no particular order:

• You stop thinking so much about sex and begin to look to more from life than just sexual pleasure.
• It does wonders for your willpower. Willpower is like a muscle, the more you use it the stronger it gets. Abstaining from M is good excercise.
• There is a difference between masturbating and having sex, and your brain understands that. Masturbation is easy, and when push comes to shove you'll masturbate over trying for sex. You can't totally control the primal urges of your brain, but you can teach it to only get what it needs from a healthy and overall beneficial source. Masturbating does nothing for you, except give you some pleasure. Whereas having sex with your partner, has numerous benefits.

PS: I'm not against masturbation, but understand that it's a slippery slope, especially if you're an addict. Unlike other drugs, porn is never gonna get out of your system. All those videos and pics are gonna stay in your head forever. If you imagine porn and masturbate, it's almost as bad as watching porn itself. And as a long time addict, it's very easy to fall into the trap of imagining porn and masturbating to it, even if I don't really want to, cause in the moment all my body desires is pleasure.

 

Me? Well, in general, absolutely, my imagination is beautiful and powerful and the more I use it, the more I eventually have better pictures in mind than from P. I wouldnt have bad conscience from just Masturbate without P. So its less unhealthy for me.

 

I stopped for 2 years and Still did ngl

 

How would I do easy mode if I did hard for 2 years? Thought about it but i felt bad due to confusion

 

Any more easy mode success stories?