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Still can't move on...

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Booker de Witt, Mar 18, 2018.

  1. Booker de Witt

    Booker de Witt New Fapstronaut

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    We broke up a year ago and she has since moved on but I still love her. Why is it so hard to let her go? :(
     
  2. kevinfine

    kevinfine Fapstronaut

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    I would say 'cos the love was one sided ! - There is hope though - there is a person out there for you..just get on with your social life and you will meet someone worthy of your love !

    Stay Strong and Steady On !
     
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  3. You were emotionally-open to her, and that is a big risk to take for anyone. Like @kevinfine says, get on with living and you'll doubtless be surprised by what happens. Start a streak, keep it going, work on being the best version of you, and let the other parts come along.

    In time you'll find her moving on will be the best gift she ever got you, but you have to move on too.
     
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  4. Mybrownblanket

    Mybrownblanket Fapstronaut

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  5. I know the feeling its tough , there are women you meet you cant remember there names after awhile and then there are some that stick in your mind for years stay strong I know its tough
     
  6. PornFreeMe

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    I know it feels like a dagger right in the heart. But, life's about learning. Don't let it get you down and try not to obsess over her. Most people have many relationships in their lives before they find the one that sticks. It's a natural part of life to have relationships and, sadly, for them to end. I wasted years of my life in despair and brooding over unrequited love. It's a toxic, lonely, terrible mental prison. She moved on, she probably won't come back. You tried that one flavor, man- now try some others. You might be surprised, some might even be sweeter and more lovely than her. Give some options a chance. I didn't and I suffered terribly and I'm just now getting my shit together at 29 with all kinds of baggage.
     
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  7. Nil1991

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    Oh gosh, one year.. did you really try to move on, like meet others and delete her from your social online life (pics and etc..)?
     
  8. Mybrownblanket

    Mybrownblanket Fapstronaut

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    romantic relationships are really tough to get over bro.
     
  9. Pink Freud

    Pink Freud Fapstronaut

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    You are in shallow water my friend, so don't linger. Swim UP! And I promise you, soon enough, you will notice that your head is above the surface. And you can finally breathe again.
     

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