While it's getting harder each day just think of the reward at the end of it. Try to focus on the long term and not the struggle that you might be going through at that moment.
Day 1 down! Been an awesome one as well! I hope you're all doing well. I wish everyone in this forum success and remember there's no excuse for a relapse... There's every reason to not masturbate! Let's get to 90 together, Best regards, Christopher.
Day 21 done. Urges returned today again but I resisted. I'm quite worried that I will purge when I reach 90 days. I'm not entirely against relapsing at 90 days, in fact I'm kind of planning on it to see what my sensitivity is like. But it could become a purge. I know the solution is to pursue real relationships and I will. But tbh I'm not the best at dating or pulling. I can count the number of dates I've had on one hand. When I hit it off with someone I can get in the zone. But otherwise it's all just very awkward and boring. The thought of going on tons of dates to find one woman I like is a real barrier and sounds exhausting and demoralising. Any advice or tips are very welcome.
Day 58. Feeling Sore but energized. I am really enjoying this work out routine. It helps with focusing.
I recommend that you don’t relapse after 90 days, but nobody is stopping you. For the dating, you don’t have to go out with random people. You can ask a friend out on one date, and invite another couple so it’s a double date, double dates are fun and it’ll probably be easier to talk to your date.